I had the perfect marriage until my husband found someone else to confide in. At first I was OK with the new found friendship at work.It seemed harmless. Then I started noticing that my husband who hates talking on the phone was always on the phone. He claimed he was just helping a friend with her failing marriage. This is when I started noticing that I could do nothing right in his eyes. He wouldn't talk to me anymore he didn't joke around with me anymore. It was almost as if I didn't matter anymore. Then I started getting jealous and turned into a person I never thought I could be. I didn't trust him, I am constantly crying and have managed to ruin every holiday since last Christmas. I am hurt and I don't know what to do. Even though he has stopped having conversations with her he stills hides things from me. This just makes me angry and I hold it all in until I explode. Causing him to become even more distant. What do I do? I don't want to lose him. However, I fear that I have already pushed him to far away. It just sucks because I am not the one that choose to become friends with some one and push him away.