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Falling Apart

I've just read my husbands Facebook. For years he's been flirting and making arrangements to meet women I didn't even know existed. Didn't even know he had Facebook. I've had a feeling things weren't right for about a year now, but he kept telling me I was paranoid. I'm probably so used to thinking he must be right and I must be wrong I chose to listen. I've never been on a website before but thought I'd give it a go. He seems to use chat rooms very effectively maybe I can get some support. I feel like I'm dying inside.
Ihateironing2 Ihateironing2 41-45 4 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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I am kinda going through the same thing. I went though his emails and he is telling a girl that he wants her and how good looking she is. I confronted him about it and he said it was his 1 friend (they always talk like that) I believed him until I went though his email again and saw "his friend" email him again and she signed it a different name. I am so upset and I don't know what to do. We just got married. I am older and he is younger and we are expecting our first child (no we did not get married cause i was pregnant it happened after the marrage) I am trying not to stress a lot because I don't want it to hurt the baby. We only been married for 3 months and 11 days! and I am 12 weeks prego! I don't know what I should do! I have no family here no friends (by choice I am very shy and can't open up to people) Don't know what to do!

Open an account and chat with him, I say this because even if you tell him you know about his FB account, he'll deny it and call you crazy, be the smart one, and play this to your advantage, he's an ******* scum bag, catch him in the act and meet him in a secret location after a while talking, and when he shows up, be prepared and smart, serve him divorce papers.<br />
I'm sorry you had to find out this way, but I think no one deserves to be misled lied to and belittled, not when you are worth so much more. Hang in there.

I agree, the best thing any women could do for them selves is get even. Please hold your head up high don't cry or feel sorry for your self stand your grounds and be a strong women no matter what it takes. P.S. just don't think of killing him it's not worth it.

Open an account and chat with him, I say this because even if you tell him you know about his FB account, he'll deny it and call you crazy, be the smart one, and play this to your advantage, he's an ******* scum bag, catch him in the act and meet him in a secret location after a while talking, and when he shows up, be prepared and smart, serve him divorce papers.<br />
I'm sorry you had to find out this way, but I think no one deserves to be misled lied to and belittled, not when you are worth so much more. Hang in there.

I am so sorry that you are experiencing this. Have you confronted him yet? My "wonderful" husband is doing the same, but claims because he doesn't meet them in person, he is not cheating. These kind of men are so good at manipulation and lying that it does take awhile for an honest person to catch on. I know how much you are hurting and try to remember, he is wrong, not you. <br />
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I did the same thing and found this website. I am happy to chat anytime, it is nice to know there is someone else out there that understands.