Why Is Nothing Ever Simple...

I like being single and thought I was pretty well immune to feelings of love. A while back however I began chatting to a girl on the internet and felt an unusual connection, so much so that I have been doing the same each night for weeks. Its feel like I have fallen in love with her and now I am stuck in trance not knowing what to do. I pretty much think about her day and night, everyday life and work is not so easy in this state.

1 minute my head tells me I am crazy and I should concentrate on real life, another minute I might be thinking about flying off halfway across the world and some magic fairy tale happening. Neither of these options feels great, wish I had an off switch!
WhyDoesThisHappen WhyDoesThisHappen
31-35, M
2 Responses Aug 29, 2011

I know what you mean; although I love a girl just as a friend, I can't get her off my mind for even an hour. I too said to my self when I met her i wasn't going to love her and yet here I am; crazy about her. There's not really a whole bunch you can do about it, I would suggest you just talk to her, tell her how you feel and she what she says. Good luck! God bless!

I believe time only can tell , like he used to tell me I have been in love with my guy for nine years now and it gets stronger as i speak . <br />
I only wish for the best, my heart cant see another way of being happy and content other than being with him, but how ? <br />
may god put our hearts and souls at ease

I don't think I could copy with these feeling for a year let alone 9! My feelings are real but when you tell me of your love it puts things into perspective for me. At this moment I can completely take my mind somewhere else, somewhere that makes me think I wish I had some magical solution for you.