I realize that men and women think and feel differently. I have been with my husband for over 10 years. We have both agreed that we want a divorce. I have no desire to be with him! Here's my question, does he really feel nothing? I am mourning the end of the relationship, hell I have been with this man for a long time. I am sad that he will not be part of my daily life anymore. I am sad that it has come to this. So, being separated you have good days and bad days. Some day I am fine other days weeping and emotionally shattered. My sbtx, says he just breaks everything down logically and is fine. Why do I feel like he should have an emotion? Not asking for more than one, he might strain something! Can you really be with someone for this long and feel nothing? Any other men have some words of wisdom here? Or is it as simple as my stbx is just a delta bravo??