Alone, Confused And Orphaned
I have been in a loveless marriage for some time. My 'wife' came home after work, on my birthday, to inform me that we were gonna seperate. I was surprised but not...
We talked more to each other then we had ever before in quite some time. The other day I went to call her mother (because she is watching our pets) and I accidentally deleted her contact from my phone. I went up stairs and noticed that my 'wife' had left her cell phone at home. I picked up her phone and looked for her mothers number, and couldn't find it then remembered...
When you list numbers on your phone you are to put ICE in front of certain contacts, so if you are ever in an accident and are unconcious they know who to contact. There is where I found her mothers number and a contact of some guy I had never heard of, obviously someone very important to her if he is her In Case of Emergency contact with her mother.
I asked her about it, I was not cross or rude, she said he was a friend, I questioned because she had never mentioned him before, she flew off the handle packed her clothes and left.
Am I wrong? I have never heard of this person, for her to say is just a friend seems suspect and when she said it was a friend I excepted that answer. Just wanted clarification.
I don't know what is happening but things are hard right now. I have been in a marriage where my intelligence, gut feelings and personal being have been insulted and told were wrong. I do not know how to feel and dont know if I can trust my feelings because I was told for the last 8 years that my feelings are wrong.