Separated & Not Dealing Well W/the Reality.I did post a few days ago. My husband & I have been separated 3 months & tomorrow we & our respective lawyers meet. We haven't spoken in three months. We live in the hills of Vermont and have two homes on the property. My husband is in one and my mother and myself in the other. My mom is 88 and just got out of the hospital due to the flu. She now has pneumonia. Today was the big snow storm and we have no family or friends and are totally isolated. All our family live 2 hours away. I am so lost without my husband's support. I was so in love with him and learned to live with the cruel things he did. It's hard to admit to feeling used for money, or housework as he never wanted to spend time with me or be intimate with me. I had a very lethal suicide attempt in October as I didn't have the guts to leave the marriage. Now he & his lawyer are going to meet with myself and his lawyer and I know they will be tearing into me. His lawyer keeps e-mailing my lawyer complaining of money. I've given up everything, home, family, job almost my life. Why do people do this to one another? And why was I so stupid. Please everyone on this website keep me in your thoughts & prayers tomorrow at about 11:30 est. Anyone who wants to write in I would appreciate some kindness.
maxmoca1 51-55, F 6 Responses 0 Jan 18, 2011