Feeling Unwanted...

I'm 23 and my partner is 39. We now live together. We have sleeping together for 4 years now, first just as special friends now we are monogamous. Have been for a while although neither of us slept with others when we weren't. My problem is that I have a high sex drive and he does not. We never had a lot of sex but now it's only once or twice a month, for about 10-15 mins long average. He says he wants to want to have sex and its not me, but I just feel ****. If I try it on it is a turn off, it has to be him starting it. I feel so rejected all of the time and can't get it off my mind. I know he doesn't want to hurt me but I feel lonely, unwanted. It makes me miserable I just want to not want to have sex anymore. I would never cheat but I am just getting fed up of feeling so ****. Sex is what keeps a relationship intimate, just hate feeling so unwanted.
Sad141989 Sad141989
22-25, F
2 Responses Jan 6, 2013

I feel your exact pain, my high sex drive is too much for my girlfriend. I don't wanna cheat but I need some way to keep me calm so I don't have to keep getting rejected when she's not in the mood, which is most of the time.

Thank you for replying. It's nice to know I'm not alone. So you are in the same kind of situation??