I was at a funeral recently and most of my relatives and family friends that weren't in my immediate family, called me by my youngest brothers' name or one of my younger cousins' names. One old dear of a relative, that is related in a far flung way, insisted on talking to me about how my school work was going etc. I corrected her twice, that I was not the person she thought I was and also that I was too old for school. It didn't sink in at all. I sat with my brothers to give more people a hint when I was at the wake. This only made people call me by my youngest brothers' name only, instead of my younger cousins' name. With all my brothers being massive, I could hardly blame some of them. I couldn't get served at the bar either because I forgot my ID.