Been married for 8 years, And he has never ever felt it was respectful to let me no were he is going. And he doesn't even call me at all. I mean when he is at work I never get a call when he is on his break. When he leaves the house he doesn't let me no were he's going. It seems like his friends come first no matter what. And I'm just getting tired of this bullshit. I need someone to give me some advise on what to do.
Alwaystrying2 Alwaystrying2
1 Response Aug 5, 2012

i can't relate to how you feel , but i wonder if maybe all your husband needs is just a little space, since youre not newlyweds anymore? has he done anything to make you think he may be cheating on you? if not, maybe he just wants to hang with his friends. i know my bf would be annoyed if i expected him to call me every day when he goes on break. maybe try showing him that you have a life of your own - hang with your friends, do your hobbies, etc. be nonchalant when he asks where you're going. maybe he'll appreciate you giving him the extra space?

also, i have never been married so of course i may not know what i am talking about at all. i just wanted to write something, because i saw that you wrote this in august and no one has commented yet :(