In Theory, What Is E.P Really For?
E.P is for ALL TYPES OF PEOPLE to express their stories.
So why go b*itchin at ppl when you disagree? Why bother doing that? Nothing is achieved by leaving PERSONAL bad remarks. NOTE that even when you do, I refuse to respond. It's easier for me to IGNORE you.
I am not on E.P to get into stupid arguments that you started. That's NOT fun for me. It's exhausting, and takes up time I want to spend using E.P!
You wanna get personal, that's up to you. I can hardly STOP you, can I? But I won't attack YOU back, because I know you are JUST doing it to anger me.
Does it make you happy, to hear me say:
'I'm angry?!' 'I'm hurt?'
Is that what you want to hear? Fine. You just heard it. What more d'you want, BLOOD??????? Is it NOT ENOUGH that you see my life has been sh*it enough??!
USUALLY people go to groups that have stories THEY WANT TO HEAR, not at stuff that p*isses them off. THAT WAY, everyone is happy. It means that sh*it isn't rubbed in their face if they're NOT looking for it.
i.e, If I don't like stories about GUNS (not true, it's just an example!) what would the point be of me DELIBERATELY going into gun stories and ARGUING with every 'Tom, **** and Harry' on there who loves them?
(I've often stumbled on stories that repulse me, but I DON'T judge and criticise them 4 it. I respect their 'right to write' and go elsewhere- I wouldn't dream of insulting their work)
So if you don't like a story I wrote, don't act like I FORCED you to read it, as if I'm PURPOSELY p*issing YOU off .... if it's gonna UPSET you, LEAVE and look at SOMETHING ELSE, problem solved!!!!
Why do you write me sh*it instead, and try arguing with me and bringing me down? If that's what you're trying to do on purpose then you are a sad f*ucker. I hope someone does it TO YOU one day you'll think twice about hurting someone's feelings.
BTW, I don't mind admitting, that I USED TO try several different ways of 'protecting myself' from spiteful, negative 'comments.' SEE BELOW:
I EVEN argued back and 'got personal and nasty' in return, ('fighting fire with fire') I was 'turning into someone else'. It wasn't me anymore, so to speak. It was destroying my personality!
SO WHAT DID I DO? My conscience wouldn't ALLOW me to KEEP my own bad remarks up on screen. I had to remove them, coz I was copying them by fighting back like this. It's not MY STYLE, so I have to ask, 'how can others bring themselves to do it', if I can't!?
(Fighting is dreadful, it's futile, it only relieves your anger for a moment. Then some1 else will anger you, and so it goes on....!)
I even resorted to blocking members, (which I felt was an over-reaction, unless harrassment was happening). I abandoned this coz it wore me out also.
I used to DELETE nasty remarks, coz they upset me too much to look at. But now I realise that it's better to leave them up, as evidence of your bad mindedness. That way, YOU are showing YOUR true colours to everyone!
I don't have to do a thing to you, you do it to yourself. Don't be surprised if no-one likes you for it.
NOW I DO NOTHING.