There Must Be Something Wrong

I'm 25 and the whole being-single thing is already driving me mad.  Especially because all of my friends are married, and now they're all getting pregnant. I'm the only single person at work.  ****, I'm the only single person I KNOW.  But it's more than being single.  It's about the failure.  I attract hot guys-oh my God, do I ever-but I can never get them to stick around.  ANd I look at people I know who are in long-term, stable relationships, you know, people I know or are acquainted with, and for some of them, I can see so many reasons why a guy would not want to date them.  But lo and behold: they have boyfriends.  Like my girlfriends who get mad at their boyfriends over stupid little **** like not ordering vegetables with their Chinese food.  Or my girlfriends who don't let their boyfriends go out, or never want to go out themselves.  The ones who are soooo silly, so shallow, so ******* stupid. 
And YET STILL, guys will date them. 

It makes me think that there must be something wrong with me that is worse than any of that.  Something fundamental that I am unaware of but that must be as obvious as glow-in-the-dark paint in the dark. 

 

dwin dwin
22-25, F
3 Responses Nov 25, 2009

Looking for love in all the wrong Places ?? Try looking in the spirtual end.

The good news is you're still available, so you're unlimited in the possibility of finding the perfect guy for you. It would be a much sadder story if you were not single, but still longed for something better. And i hate to be the one to break it to you, but ******* have a much better chance of getting a nice guy, and vise versa. I'm not saying to try to be a *****, you'll both have a much better life if you're both nice. Your personality might be working against you right now by attracting all of those hot guys you mentioned that won't last long-term. Think about why you're attracting the wrong types and what you can do about it. Not an easy task. It might take a lot of patience for it to all fall together. It will be worth it though.

Of course, they aren't as shallow as you.<br />
Nah.<br />
<br />
YOU are ******* deep.<br />
<br />
You attract hot guys, huh?<br />
Oh yeah.<br />
I feel sorry for you.<br />
I do.<br />
<br />
Kinda like how I feel sorry<br />
for Bill Gates and the billions of dollars<br />
that he has to manage.<br />
The poor bastard.