I Am Sick of Being the Expendable Friend

Invisible

By: submissivelittlewoman

Written on January 22nd, 2013

I feel invisible most days…

There will always be someone prettier, smarter, funnier.... someone new who will stroke your ego....someone who has more to offer you then i do.

I will give you all of me…we will laugh together and cry together…. but as soon as someone “better” comes along I will be easily forgotten.

If I’ve let you into my life it means I am going to be there for you…always, not when it’s convenient for you.

By: submissivelittlewoman

Age: 41-45 , Female

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37 responses

akindheart

Never allow anyone to make you feel that way. never. you possess gifts that people can only dream of. You are honest, you are one smart cookie, you are loyal and one of my best friends. when someone makes you feel that way, wish them well and let them go. why? Because someone else is coming to fill their space. someone who counts like you do.

May 8
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SimplyK

You are never invisible...to me anyway....
I am not sure who has told you that you are not pretty, that you are not smart, that you are not funny...I find you to be all of these things and more....
You are caring, compassionate, very lovable and kind....you are so much fun to be with.....and you have become a very dear friend....you brighten my day....everyday with your presence.....and when we cannot talk to each other because of our hectic schedules....I miss you....
Invisible? I think not...when we are not able to communicate, not able to be together....I close my eyes and see you....Invisible? Not to me...not at all, NEVER?

May 7
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- submissivelittlewoman
  thank you K, i appreciate your very kind words..xo
  
  May 7
  1 like
- SimplyK
  I meant every word....
  
  May 7
  1 like
LelainaTroy

I feel this everyday

Apr 25
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- submissivelittlewoman
  As of late...so do I.
  
  Apr 25
  1 like
cs6c321

You've never been invisible to me SLW!!!! just sayin

Apr 25
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- submissivelittlewoman
  Thanks ....
  Lately, I've felt like this more and more.
  
  Apr 25
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- cs6c321
  You're not that with me whatsover SLW !!!! Even before we became friends
  
  May 1
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withintent

I see you ;)

Mar 22
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RiversideMan

Sounds like you've been neglected, come on over, I'll help you feel better.

Jan 30
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- submissivelittlewoman
  You always do...mwah! ;)
  
  Jan 30
  1 like
Pro4424

I think you're pretty fantastic and I think it would be awesome to be close to you

Jan 25
2 likes
- submissivelittlewoman
  thank you...
  
  Jan 26
  1 like
1OHD

As nice and beautiful a person as you are SLW, it really hurt me to think about the pain that prompted you to write this story. What more could a guy want or ask for, than what you've described, in a woman!

Jan 25
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- submissivelittlewoman
  idk...i guess i'm doing or saying something wrong.
  
  Jan 25
  1 like
- 1OHD
  well it was his loss! and I doubt it was anything you said or did. some guys are just intimidated being around a beautiful woman!
  
  Jan 25
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- submissivelittlewoman
  how can he feel intimidated by me...i'm not beautiful...i'm just me :(
  
  Jan 25
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- 1OHD
  Aw but you are beautiful SLW! Inside and out!
  
  Jan 25
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Totherescue

I stand and applaud. Holds out hands grasps yours and raises one skyward shows the world you are a winner!!! Woot woot!!

Jan 23
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- submissivelittlewoman
  thank you....*bows* ;)
  
  Jan 23
  1 like
1sweetloralei

I know what you mean. I wrote a story similar to this called Flavor Of The Month.

Jan 23
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- submissivelittlewoman
  i can't believe how quickly people move on...
  
  Jan 23
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johnlava

I'm sorry you feel this way. I'm sure they don't mean to do that. You are a treasure. Please don't feel that way.

Jan 22
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- submissivelittlewoman
  some days it's hard not to feel this way. you would think i'd get use to it by now.
  
  Jan 23
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- johnlava
  You shouldn't have to get used to it. People should cherish you.
  
  Jan 23
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- submissivelittlewoman
  not everyone feels the same way about me as you do
  
  Jan 23
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- johnlava
  Everyone isn't as smart as me, except you.
  
  Jan 23
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- submissivelittlewoman
  *smiles*
  
  Jan 23
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- johnlava
  That is beautiful....
  
  Jan 23
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- OceanStar66
  yup...thats exactly what I say...every time someone disappoints me...'you would think I would be used to it by now'...it is sad that people think a friendship is expendable...
  
  Jan 24
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TantraPleasure

You are a treasure, someone I value very very much!!

Jan 22
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- submissivelittlewoman
  thank you...that is very sweet of you to say :)
  
  Jan 22
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magnumbunny

Cool...invisibility is considered a super power....just sayin :)

Jan 22
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- submissivelittlewoman
  lol...you are so silly :)
  
  Jan 22
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Pro4424

You are super fantastic I'd love to be a part of your life.

Jan 22
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- submissivelittlewoman
  you are very sweet :)
  
  Jan 22
  1 like

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