I'm Seriously Done!

I think certain woman like the power of controlling a mans feelings.  Why is it that I have to be the instigater, the romancer..........the man! I don't like to think woman are intimidated by me, but the only women who have pursued me are women I've been friends with before. 
shadoweyes shadoweyes
26-30, M
1 Response Jul 22, 2010

I am not one of those women... sad to say it, but I have no freaking clue how to go about pursuing a man. Also, I hold a belief that the man should be the one doing the pursuing, but even if I didn't believe that, I still wouldn't know where to begin. That doesn't mean the man should do all the work in the relationship. I still would want to make him happy in any way possible that doesn't conflict with my own personal beliefs and boundaries.