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Still Single

By: suemen72y
Written on September 5th, 2009

I recently divorced my estranged husband, but I still feel weird about meeting other people. I had been seperated for 6 years. I haven't dated anyone or even had coffee with another guy and I don'rt know if there is something wrong with me. I feel so left out of the loop. I see happy couples all the time and I kinda feel soured or salted when I know it's not me in a relationship.

People tell me it takes time and my higher power will send me the perfect guy, but i feel as if I'm not doing enough on my part.

By: suemen72y
Age: 36-40 , Female
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    MichealDuu
    MichealDuu

    Sounds like you've got integrity. That's what's gonna bring you happiness. Keep true and authentic and the world will deliver your man. Honesty is the only option if you want happiness. Well done-and be patient!

    May 29, 2012
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    kidcurry92
    kidcurry92

    Nothing weird but I am 19 male. My name is Aakash Trivedi. I am from California. I am pretty sure that you are a sweet, intelligent, and beautiful woman and I would love to maybe give you my number? We can just talk and chat about anything. If you ever feel bored or lonely? Again, nothing weird hahahaha. 1 408 772 8919. Text or call maybe? Just tell me who you are haha

    May 13, 2012
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    grayeyeskb
    grayeyeskb

    I have been alone for three years and I still haven't met anyone. I just want a normal guy to share my life with. I've tried the dating sites and it didn't work out for me. So now I'm just going to live my life. I hate being alone and left out of things, but it's just how my life turned out, and I have to work at not feeling bitter about it.

    Sep 6, 2009
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    Arinna
    Arinna

    If you believe in a higher power theres a saying that says "God helps those who help themselfs"

    If you dont feel ready to date then leave time heal your wounds. Dont force yourself.

    But if you are unsure or you just want to test how you would react try to go out with a friend and meet new people in the company of someone you trust and know. And when you start feeling confortable then you can move on to meeting men by yourself.

    A higher power might send you someone but he will defenetly not ring the doorbell!

    Sep 6, 2009
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    Sudbury
    Sudbury

    we all know there's no such thing as PERFECT....but, relax and see what time and life brings to you...

    Sep 5, 2009
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