Single, Happy and Content With My Choices

First off:

I am a 44 yr old female with 2 daughters. One is 22 in her last year of college and the other is 10 and  a honor roll student. Now I dont take all the credit for this because both of them make and are still making capable decisions and choices about who they want to become. What I do take credit for is that I raised them alone. without there fathers in my life or even a contributing factor. In accomplishing this kind of challenge in my life, while on my own, without a man, just showed me how capable I am as a single mother and woman. Not that I dont enjoy the company of a man, I just know now that I dont need or depend on one for my life decisions or self approval. That feeling empowers me and I  enturn feel more alive from my own self image than any man could ever give to me.  This fufills my soul. Knowing this about myself, makes me feel valid and important. To know that my self importance comes from within just elates me, mind, body, and soul.

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2 Responses Aug 6, 2008

i am happy for you.wish you will tell us about your sexcapades too so we can agree with you that men are luxuries and not sure a man somewhere is still doing some nice body work for you.

That is amazing that you reared your two daughters alone and that you realize a man "a luxury not a necessity" like Cher said!