I am single and I love it. I don't, repeat don't, want that to change. No, I do not have an account in an online dating site, I don't do speed dating, and I don't lament my single status. I love it. Every decision I make is by me, for me, and about me. There is NOTHING in my home that I had to compromise on. I have the dinner I want every night, and I am always in control of the remote. What's not to love?
Its not that I don't "know what I'm missing". Yes, I do. I'm just not missing it. I have 2 marriages under my belt, and I will not be seeking a third. I dated shortly, but decided that since I am NOT looking for mr. right, why not leave the hunting to the hunters? I enjoy my solitude and yes, I do enjoy, after 30 years of always thinking of that other person, thinking about myself.
So, no more of this "oh my god, I have got to find my soulmate" crap. I may be one of the rare humans that doesn't even have a soulmate. And that's fine with me. Who needs a soulmate when the solitary journey is so satisfying?