I Heart Being Single!

I've been single for a long time now (well not really but 3 years.) and it's great. I would love to be in a solid relationship but I don't think just yet.. It just annoys the hell out of me that all my gal pals are in these ridiculously codependent relationships. No time for girls night out, not just going with the flow and letting the night lead the way... gotta do what the hubbie says is "ok" ugh. quite the eye roller.

1- I love sleeping in the middle of the bed surrounded by my 5 pillows
2- if someone calls me I can almost always drop what I'm doing to talk or meet up
3- I can flirt with out feeling guilty (just have a flirtatious nature)
4- I don't have to compromise as often as non-single ppl do

However- being in a relationship is sometimes the wet blanket I could use.... but really.. I'm all I need and can handle right now :D 
DecemberLady DecemberLady
22-25, F
2 Responses May 6, 2012

it is hard doing the stuff you do when in a relationship but i think these people who are tied down too much need to let free a little. It doesnt mean they should cheat or go on a big fat binge but... maybe be a bit spontaneous and let the night go on like you said. Relationship or not, people need to practice their individuality every now and then. I like that my girlfriend has her own life, she came back at 4 am last night. Its all good with me. Speaking of the bitc*..she just called me. Time to go. :)

it is hard doing the stuff you do when in a relationship but i think these people who are tied down too much need to let free a little. It doesnt mean they should cheat or go on a big fat binge but... maybe be a bit spontaneous and let the night go on like you said. Relationship or not, people need to practice their individuality every now and then. I like that my girlfriend has her own life, she came back at 4 am last night. Its all good with me. Speaking of the bitc*..she just called me. Time to go. :)