Storms Will ComeBoys II Men were correct in wondering if one can "stand the rain?" Yes, relationships can have rainy, gloomy days but it is making it through the storm that makes the participants strong.
Often, issues do arise with the girl that I'm dating. I have to admit that we both must have had the desire to "run," at one time or the other, but we actually notice that we can learn when we don't run. And this willingness to go into the depths of the other person's feelings is a characteristic of a desire to love, if not love itself.
I guess I usually ask myself this question; do I want to go to the dry land and be alone, or do I want to wait out the storm with the one I love?
The answer is always the latter.