The Wrong Girl

Why do I always seem to fall for the wrong girl? I mean really, now when I say fall, I do not mean head over heels, sweaty palms, shortness of breath kind of fall. I think it could get there, but just not yet. I have been divorced for about 2 years now. I have dated a couple of really nice women.
I am not the type of guy that will string a woman along until I can climb into bed with them. While I do enjoy sex, I have a great friend who supplies all of the benefits without any strings; she is in an open marriage and knows that when I find the girl of my dreams it is over. Actually we have stopped seeing each other twice when I put myself in a committed relationship.
OK, back to my story. I met this fantastic woman. Everything was going great, we had fun when we were out together, we had fun just sitting on the deck watching storms roll through. It seemed almost perfect, she had her life and I had my life and job and it seemed we wanted to be together a lot. The sex was fantastic, I know I enjoyed it and I could tell she did also.
Then out of the blue she does not want to see me anymore. Now I am 48 years old and I am not depressed like a school boy but I am disappointed. I just wonder what I am doing wrong. What can I do differently? I know there are other fish in the sea but dang.
If someone has the “Answer” please let me know.
KarlsHuman KarlsHuman
46-50, M
Sep 5, 2012