My PlaceI have come to the conclusion that I might have rationalized my current life into acceptability. When I divorced I literally walked away from everything from an 18 year marriage. There were good reasons for this, we still had 3 kids living at home and I was moving to a different State so my EX needed all of the stuff and I really needed very little.
I moved into a 1 bedroom apartment, at first I just had a small twin bed. I slept in it for a couple of months then bought a Queen sized bed and a dresser. The rest of the place is pretty bachelor. In the living room I have a, as in one, comfortable chair. A console for my X-Box, DVR and BlueRay hooked up to a 65 inch TV mounted on the wall. That is it. There are no other furnishings in the house.
I eat, watch TV, read, surf the web and EP from that chair. As I was sitting there last night I thought that maybe I should get some furniture. Then I thought, why? I do not plan to be alone the rest of my life, and anything that I buy I am sure the girl I meet will not like it. So why bother.
KarlsHuman 46-50, M 1 Sep 18, 2012