Just Sharing....

I am a 35 y/o single white female with a steady job.  I am a positive thinker, and happy almost all the time. 

I was actually yelled at because I am almost always happy...LOL! "What is the matter with you?  Do you never get sad or angry?!?  Do you have no other emotion?  You aren't normal!!"   To which I replied,"I just count my blessings every day.  There is so much to be thankful for and happy about!"  Sheesh! :-)

I was with the same man since I was 18 - and we met when I was 14.  I have been single for about three years now.  I love being alone in most ways - my home is very peaceful after a long day at work, it is always clean, less money for groceries, less laundry / dishes, I never argue with myself, and I can do what I want when I want.  I miss cuddling, though.  Some nights I use my pillows as a person! :-)  Not quite the same, but my pillows do not snore!

I am not sure what to write - but I thought I would just introduce myself and see what happens!  Leave a comment if you would like! :-)  Have a great day! :-)



It is 2010 and I have been single for about five years.  I still love being single, and everything else I stated above.  I still miss cuddling, but now also miss the conversation and taking care of someone (cooking, cleaning, etc.).  Thank goodness I have a few people I can cook and clean for!  :-)


It is the end of August 2010, and I am happy to announce that I decided to open my heart to a loving Christian gentleman.  I have had only one connection that was as strong as this one before in my life.  We started to talk, and it is as if we have known each other for many years.  He is an incredible person, with a heart of gold.  My life has been greatly blessed by his presence.
*Update* April 2012

Married since August....  It was bumpy at first, and a few times downright rocky, but everything is seeming better now... I am so happy that I have my husband with me!

Yohanna Yohanna
36-40, F
21 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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Thank you both, Shuhak and One Sapphire!! :-)

More proof that God takes great care of us – just in His timing. I wish you happiness!

I am 32 and I am a very handsome man but I am going nowhere fast and the only jobs that I can get are crappy and non rewarding careers. My parents are driving me crazy. I am suppose to be marry and have a family

I wrote in earlier to wish you well being single is your choice. Sure being single is great and yes as single again myself I missed the relationship, the hugs and kisses ... before I meet someone I am enjoying and loving myself first. When I feel I have too much love that is when I met someone and share the experience love and moments.

I m single again! not yet know how to deal with it! can someone help me way to accept it and enjoy it most i can?

what is this happy you speak of? i've been searching a long time and I don't know what it is. Can you tell me what it is or feels like?

Hay at lest I am not the only one that cuddles up to the pillow I must believe it wont always be a pillow wish you happy days

I wish I was as strong as you are.

Hi I have been single for 2 years now and havent getten over my devorce yet. I was married for 10 years and i cooked and cleaned for her when she cheeted on me. Havent been able to move on yet is there any suggions that anyone would have for me i only have 2 friends and thay wont even talk to me about this or anything to do with me when im down i dont want to go out of the house or do anything by myself i need to really talk with friends thay wont give me the time or day to get things out i need two

after being in a relationship for 20 + years it took quite sometime to adjust to being single at least 2 years went by before i really got comfortable being single. I believe that i got married to young and didn't know what i wanted. Don't get me wrong i enjoyed being married it gave me a sense of security knowing that i had a partner in life. However, things don't always work out the way we plan<br />
I found a whole new world being single and i am enjoying to the fullest. We have to embrace every moment both the ones we enjoy as well as the the ones we are not so fond of. There is so much to soak in and when i finally realized this and began to slow down and really ":smell the roses' i didn't feel that solitude anymore and i live way out in the boonies on the big island so i know how it can get.<br />
Stay positive and take a 420 break you will see things in a new light

Yup you are right badger power - and I was one of them now I am single again and go girl Yohanna I like the spirit you transpired to all. Exactly how Beyonce nicely sang in her song Single Ladies. lol loved that song!

Well I agree with you completely... most people just get married because they think they should. I know too many unhappily married people to believe in marriage for the sake of marriage.

I believe, who always want to being as single have more enjoyment and freedom for his/her life.A better sexuality more dynamic. <br />
If you falling in love, You have to be a slave.

I was in a relationship for a long time before becoming single again earlier this year.<br />
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You can't really compare them, you can't say being single is better or being with someone is better. I don't mind being single, I loved it when I was with him, too.<br />
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Good to see someone who sees things the way I do :)

It's a good thing to be happy when you are single. :P

Wow that is amazing something simluar happened with me, but I believe the John 10:10 life. see the Ampliphide version

If God wills it, I would love it! :-) I would love to be in a relationship again. I just haven't found the (new) man I want to spend the rest of my life with. :-)<br />
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Thank you for the comment! :-)

Do you ever see a time in the future when you will be happily part of a couple again?