I Am Single
Well....I am finally to the point where I am comfortable (at least most of the time) being single. I have filed for divorce and it will only take 60 more days to finalize. He doesn't want anything and neither do I. We are just going our separate ways. I still love him in a sense but only as a friend and because we know each other so well. I am working and starting to love my work again. I have put my profile out there on a few dating sites. It's been a long 9 months of soul searching and self actualization.
I want to date again. I know that I will fall in love again someday and take all the things that I have learned in the past to make a better future. I know my boundaries and am not going to give up myself for a man again. Why do women do this? I have read a couple of books that have pointed out that we as women tend to give up the things we want/believe in for our men. A quandary to ponder over.
My adult daughters have been so supportive. I'm glad I have them in my life. They have point out my insecurities and helped me through them. It's amazing what our children remember and throw back in our face when we need it. LOL!
So wish me luck. I'm off to a better life.
I want to date again. I know that I will fall in love again someday and take all the things that I have learned in the past to make a better future. I know my boundaries and am not going to give up myself for a man again. Why do women do this? I have read a couple of books that have pointed out that we as women tend to give up the things we want/believe in for our men. A quandary to ponder over.
My adult daughters have been so supportive. I'm glad I have them in my life. They have point out my insecurities and helped me through them. It's amazing what our children remember and throw back in our face when we need it. LOL!
So wish me luck. I'm off to a better life.
By:
firespryte
Age:
41-45
,
Female
