I Lie About Being Single.

Sounds like you're a successful man with a good head on his shoulders. If a woman couldn't handle you simply because you haven't been in a long-term relationship, then good riddance to her. Also, in regards to physical intimacy and such, that's something that is always evolving in a couple. It's something that can be worked on with clear communication.

If you're too nervous to go on a first date...maybe you should give speed dating a chance? I've done that twice before, and it was quite a bit of fun. It forces you to have a conversation with someone new, and you know that there's a time limit. You also don't need to worry about trying to ask that person for their phone number or whatnot, because the company with give you your matches contact information. Even if you don't meet anyone there you'd like to pursue, it's still a new adventure, and good experience. Everyone there is in the same boat: nervous, anxious, don't know what to say, worrying about how they'll come across, etc. You never have to worry about seeing them again, either, because what are the odds of crossing their path again?

To help build your confidence, why not try talking to women at casual places? Maybe while you're at the grocery store, ask a gal if she has any tips for making a certain dish. It's not "hitting" on her, and you have a quick escape route if need be.

Taking risks can lead to big payouts. I'm 26, been in several LTR's myself, but have never just walked up to a guy and given him my phone number. I made it a point to do so at a convention I was at two weekends ago. Had a nice conversation with a guy, and gave him my number, not knowing if he had any real interest. We went out for dinner and had a great time, even though I found out that he's a little too young for me, and I live too far away for him. Even so, it was nice to get to know someone new who had similar interests as me.

The worst that can happen is that you hear the word "no". I'm sure that being told "no" hasn't stopped you from becoming successful in your career, so the same should apply toward meeting someone. Have a little more confidence in yourself; women pick up on that. Best of luck on your journey :)

Sometimes one rejection reminds us that we're alive. And that even if someone says no, or they laugh at us, we are still going to live. If you've spent any time on here, there are hundreds of people living in sexless marriages, having loveless sex, so many single people desperate for somebody. There are so many ways to approach this. You could ask someone out on a date. You could pick somebody up at a bar and have a one night stand. The possibilities are endless. And if someone tells you 'no' or it doesn't work it, it is simply that - it didn't work out. Wasn't meant to be. Dust yourself off and ask another.

I'm going to be 25 in march and I've only been in one relationship my whole life . I dont have experience with relationship but I know I will eventually find one that is right and real if you have anxiety issue then speak to a doctor but know this there is someone out there for you maybe they are dealing with the same issue at this time but you will eventually find that perfect woman.

You said that you know that girls would be interested in you. Which ones? If you're afraid of disappointing them then maybe it is a form of compassion.

When my last girlfriend broke up with she told me that the sex was "not that great". I actually took it as a complement---she could have said that it was horrible. She was the only person I dated in a ten year period, and we were together for about a year.

You need to go to your Dr. and talk about your anxiety. There is therapy and medication. It is such a common problem, but like you stated, it will get worse as time goes on.