I Am Single

Singleton Is Finally Getting To Me.

By: EWhovian

Written on February 17th, 2013

I never used to mind being single, I don't care about seeing couples walking down the street, or that my friends have someone when I don't.

I just feel, Well I guess lonely. All the offers I do get just aren't for me. It feels as if I can't win!
I know im young and have plenty of time but its nice to have someone for now, who knows where it would take me!

Why is it so hard to find someone who just wants a good old fashioned relationship rather then sleeping around or some top notch hot model!?

By: EWhovian

Age: 18-21 , Female

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mesonic

Well if it makes you happy it works the other way of guys too. lol Every time I go out (more so when I'm on leave.) My friends boast how I'm in the military and all the... "out going" girls come up one by one. Not saying all of them are bad, but defiantly for many, the only thing they have going for them is the physical appeal and that's it. Personality is crap or immature, sex can be fun and all, but personal connection would be nice, for me, I hold way higher then the sex side of things.
In the same sense I sort of feel the frustration. For me it wont be until I get out of the military that I can start a decent relationship. Though I can say for you, if you have any near by, try to go to open dance studios / bars (not bump and grind.) That have swing or salsa, those two are the best casual dances in my view and a great way to meet new people! Also if you are the artsy type, look for local cafes that hold poetry slams, they are interesting to watch and listen to and you will with out a doubt meet the most interesting people.
You do look gorgeous. (Then again I just love red heads so I'm a bit bias.) Just hang in there missy, you will find that awesome guy!

Feb 18
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- EWhovian
  Hah Why thank you, I don't see why being in the military stops you having a good relationship. Thats the problem, People my age are just looking for some hot model for one night rather then someone to stay.
  Ah thank you and I to hope you will find someone, I am sure you will! And its nice to know decent people are still out there!
  
  Feb 18
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- mesonic
  Haha, thank you and I don't question that at all. The problem with the military is that it's not a stable life style. So it can be hard if not over cumbersome to deal with what the job demands of you, deployments, moving and distance. Also it's hard to find decent people near by if you are stationed out in the middle of no were...
  Any who, people looking for the next miss November maybe a problem, but you also have to ask yourself if you are looking in the right place's...
  
  Feb 18
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- EWhovian
  Ah I guess it is hard and but some people out there are willing still, you just gotta fine them!
  But where is the right place to look?
  
  Feb 18
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- mesonic
  I keep an open mind, but release my circumstance. Thank you though. Like I said above, casual dances and poetry slams, but really any social gathering, groups, or hobby's, any thing that will get you out of the house and being active in groups. Even if you don't know it (like dancing.) people are there that are willing to teach you, as long as you are meeting new people odds of you finding someone compatible to you increases compared hanging out constantly with the same group of people.
  
  Feb 18
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- EWhovian
  This is very true, I may take some of these tips!
  
  Feb 19
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PrinceKen

Is it always going to be like this? singledom and loneliness is about driving me crazy. the most annoying part is when my friends and I are out and they decide to bring along their gf's... It makes me feel am all alone in this world.... But i hope to find that lucky and positive minded girl who would be with me all the time and share things together!

Feb 18
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- EWhovian
  Yes, Its all fine and dandy hanging out with mates and there partners but when your an odd number and get ignored its a pain!
  I hope you find someone and i'm sure you will!
  
  Feb 18
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Alyss22

i also really hate it when guys ask me "how are you still single?"
i know they mean it as a compliment but I sometimes want to turn around and say "the better question is, why are you not asking me out?"
it gets to me otherwise when people say i'm fun to be around and gorgeous but no one wants to go out with me. i start to think there's something wrong with me mentally.

Feb 17
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- EWhovian
  Yes, Its like "I'm still damn single because the decent guys only b*tches as girlfriends and me as a friend" Guys always moan about girls who leave them for the bad guys but its the same the other way round!
  People are just plain idiots sometime, But when you do find someone it makes it more worth it!
  
  Feb 17
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- Alyss22
  all i ask for is a nerdy guy who loves Doctor Who, Sherlock and will sit down and watch Supernatural with me. but i'll be finding it hard to find someone like that since even I don't leave my house for anything other than school or work so why would he? :P
  
  Feb 19
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- EWhovian
  Hah, Aye men to this! I get out but they don't really exist Where I live, all of mine are brainless cave men!
  
  Feb 19
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- Alyss22
  same here! hopefully that will change once i enter college or i will give up on life :P
  
  Feb 19
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- EWhovian
  Hah even if it doesn't you have plenty of time!
  
  Feb 20
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