Good Guys Finish Last

Aww you are so cute!! Love your venting out message! Well frankly Im one of those women. Kudos for you for being your super self. At the end of the day if you are awesome & you know you are!! Keep @ it!! Stay super!!

The problem with most females who.complain that chivalry is dead is that they themselves have forgotten the Grace & Art of what it means to be a Lady.

I know it's frusturating but you just haven't been at the right place at the right time yet that's all. You just have to be patient. I'm 26/f and have been single my whole life ha so trust me it could be worse =-P

Hi Mr Musicman:-)
Sometimes there is nothing wrong!sometimes you just meet the wrong woman,I don t know!i do believe a lot,that there's a prince about there!a prince with charm that knows how to treat a woman,that believes in perfection in a relationship and that inside that perfection bad days exists.
Don t know what could be wrong with you!thats something you have to analyse!if the same problem happens all the time you date somebody,change that!or maybe there's no problem!its just that you didn t found the right person!the things you wrote that you do is so difficult to find in a man nowadays!honestly it is!and it seems you one in a million:-) so don t worry!things takes time to achieve!thats how I learn to think:-)
Hope it helps.x

Hey i like Steve Buscemi! :p

There is nothing wrong with you, but its normal to question our worth somedays. Its all about timing. Have faith in yourself. You sound like a great catch....so keep the faith. Trust me....she will be looking for YOU! She will just cross your path somehow, somewhere. You are only young so there is plenty of time to find her. Allow yourself time to heal (properly) and then you will attract the right type of girl. If you are still hurting over someone else you wont give out the right "vibe" as your heart just wont be ready.

If you are all the things you say then your only problem is not getting out there and getting your girl. Go get her..be the alpha male and get it done. That's how you'll find the girl of your dreams. It's not that good guys finish last, its that the aggressive guys beat you to it.

Honey,

Here's the thing. I'm 25 and I've been single for 6 years. Single as in I haven't been on a date. What's "wrong" with me? We can break that into 1 major thing in each: physical, mental and spiritual.The first barrier: I'm fat. In a definitely overweight but no health problems and can walk up four flights of stairs to my room. Secondly, I will tell you what I think, though usually, in a loving, supportive way. Oh and lastly, I'm an active Christian and will only date men who love Jesus. Now, for my point, there are definitely guys in the world that can see beyond weight. There are definitely guys that can handle a woman who can think for herself. I don't make apologies for who I am. I'm not happy that I'm single but that doesn't mean I can't be happy while I'm single. Try it.

I believe God will bring me a beautiful man who loves me, worships with me and supports me. I also believe that it will take time, patience and work for us to work through being together and that God is using this time in my life to prepare me for that. Yes, it frustrates me that guys seem to miss how I amazing I am. I strongly suggest we stop thinking that way though. Who are you? Don't focus on why a woman should love you. Focus on why you love yourself. When you're confident in who you are, you have that quality that just makes you so attractive. What woman is going to be an amazing wife? I think if you stop thinking about when women will start looking at you and start thinking about what woman you want to find- you'll be halfway to really being with her. The other half will come when you realize that woman needs certain things and you make sure you're filling those. Some of those you'll realize while you're single because surprisingly, you want to be those things. Others will be discovered when you actually find her. And chances are, she won't need you to be Channing Tatum but she might still enjoy watching his movies. ;) Good luck and God Bless.

I think you sound like a terrific man that any woman would be lucky to have. I wouldn't let your heart worry about this state though. I know in the past I worried about this 24/7, and it got very tiring. I too wondered why I am single-considering I am a great person (not to brag, but I am), I'm talented, smart, considerate, loyal, the whole thing anyone would be lucky to have. I even wrote a story about it-that's how much it bothered me. However, a few weeks ago, I just came to this acceptance with this state. I know that when the time is right, I will meet someone amazing and wonderful. I know that's really cheesy and everyone says it, but that's the truth. It's the same for you. Maybe just try to accept your singleness and keep up the great qualities you have. I don't know into your faith life you are, but maybe reflect on why God wants you to be single...is there something going on? Don't immediatley say no, just think about it for a while. I recently read this article that talked about why we're single-and how it's looked at as a lonely and horrid state, but it's not. If you want, I'll send it to you. It's from a religious aspect, so again, if you're not into that, no worries. Regardess-best of luck on your journey :)

Maybe you are to blame too, as most men take looks over personality. I know the guy I am in love with at present does. Looks are paramount to him. I am a good looking girl, but I don't look like a supermodel, and that is what many men nowadays want. Tall, slim, big boobs, long hair, you get the picture...I am sure you are a decent guy, but that is my experience of most guys, educated or not. I wish you luck in your search for someone special!!

I'm in the same boat as you I'm going on 25 I'm single too. And almost all my friends are in relationships or engaged but its being patient and just waiting on Gods timing not your own he will bring you your mrs.right.

Awesome man. I too live my life that way. You're a good man. There is someone out there for everyone bro.