I Am Single And Hating It

i am single and thats how its been all my life i hate it because i see all these ppl around me so happy and i wish i could have that i feel alone in a world surrounded by people. no one understands. ppl here only care about looks and cant get past it. i can but what am i to do about it.

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4 Responses Feb 9, 2010

I know how you feel, but honestly there isn't anyone really worth it in high school, wait till college, that's what i'm doing. and listen to thereaverofdarkness, you'll eventually find someone.=)

I agree with thereaverofdarkness... being single doesn't have to be a bad thing. Great advice! I think it's probably better to first be friends with your "significant other" anyway...:)

You shouldn't worry about it. Being single is only a bad thing if you stress over it and believe that for some odd reason you're supposed to be with a significant other.<br />
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The empty feeling is a lack of having a really special friend, and they don't have to be a significant other. You don't need a boyfriend or a girlfriend to feel special, in fact that's not even really what does it. I suggest you stop trying to get hooked up and instead focus on making the best friends you can possibly make. And someday you'll become deeply and fatally attracted to someone, and it'll be the greatest thing ever. And chances are, that person will have been one of your best friends for a while already when it happens.

Well do something about it. Wah, Wah, Wah. :)<br />
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Just kidding.<br />
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But seriously go out there and make a difference. It is probably warm where you live :)