Dating And The On Again Off Again

I have dated someone off and on for several years.  We just work better and friends to me. It has been a few years now that we have known each other. We decided to date other people and still remain friends which has worked out well except I never know whats going on with her. Shes looking to date other people but expected me to know that we were going out for Valentines. It was like she thought we were together they way we use to be. Maybe because she didn't have anyone else? I don't know. I took her out and just didn't say anything because I know valentines is important to some girls. It just made me feel almost used though, like since she hasn't found mister right she just assumed we were together on valentines. I know her and know she didn't mean it like that but it's how I felt.

 

Long story short,,,,I consider myself single. I don't always like being single but it's really not so bad. I like being able to do my own thing.

highbeams highbeams
26-30, M
4 Responses Feb 20, 2010

Thanks Jlynnaz,<br />
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I hope someday to find the right person for me.

Your right it is really hard!

I feel like we have the same story! It's hard to be the person that someone doesn't want to let go.

I feel like we have the same story! It's hard to be the person that someone doesn't want to let go.