First Date, Now What?

So I met this great guy. He is someone I could see myself dating. We had a great first date. I was a little shy because I liked him a lot. He is really smart and successful so I was a little intimidated, but I still think it went well. We had sex, twice, which was also good. I just don't know what the next step is because we live 5 hours away. We were only in the same area for a week. What do I do? He doesn't seem like a big texter and what would I text him about if there is no chance of us meeting again in person for months?
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1 Response Jan 20, 2013

I don't want to sound like a cynic, but this may come as rather blunt. Taking into consideration the fact that you two live five hours away from each other and had sex after a first date, I don't know if a relationship is a realistic expectation or hope for the future.
However, if you really like this guy and want to figure out for sure if anythings possible. I'd text him (or if you're feeling extra confident one day CALL him). Ask him how things have been, tell him you've been reminded of your date somehow and just ask if theres any way you'll get together again.
As cheesy as it sounds, the truth is the worst thing he can say is no. And even in that case, you have your answer and can move on your merry way:]