I Am Still Alone

Hang in there. I am sure you will find love. Don't quit.It's a good sign that you are networking on ep. The in crowd are jerks anyway. The right soul mate is worth waiting for.

No, man, you're not alone. Tons of people feel what you're feeling. Trust me when I say things are going to get better. I can't believe you're cousin would do that to you, though. It's downright disrespectful and rude. It's sort of sad to me that this is how my generation is turning out. If you'd like a girlfriend, maybe you could try a dating website. From what I've heard they seem to work pretty well. I'm sure you'll find a girlfriend soon :) Things will look up, I promise.-Sara

You're not alone...you just haven't found the right people to be with. Don't worry...it's a jungle out here. You rarely meet someone who could stay true and whom you can trust. It's hard to trust people now a days...and i hope you wont have to learn it the hard way. I know a lot of people but i don't consider them as friends...cos being a friend means a lot. I chose to be like this anyways and believe me, i am happier this way. Always remember the MOST people LOVE TO TALK! gossip, spread rumors, pull other people down so they'd feel better about themselves...misery loves company ya'know. You can't just meet people and eventually consider them as friends, it takes time. People can do nasty things behind your back...I know a lot of people who have huge circle of friends but end up fighting or just pretending to like each other---a lot of drama(you don't want that) so if i were you...go chat with people, get to know them better 1st before you ask them out or invite them to hang out or something.

OMG this is such a sad story, and I can relate to it completely! The thing you're facing with your cousin now, I'm facing the same thing with my younger brother..!!!!! I lovingly carried him around in my arms when he was a baby, taught him his ABC's, took him for walks outside, played fun games with him, had meaningful conversations with, guided him in the right direction at every phase of his life, tried to set a good example on him etc. But today he is spoilt, disrespectful, uncooperative, even shows me the finger when he's frustrated, has gained enormous popularity with a huge friends circle (wow in that way he's totally opposite of me), and yeah...... I have become a piece of rubbish to him, a soft target for insults and to be kicked like trash everyday.

I can understand ur situation. you are not alone, I can relate to ur story .

Don't get me wrong but if you have been rejected that many times there is something different about you that you may not be aware of and it's worth to think about it. My point being is that you are perhaps too philosophical, esoteric, introspective, smart, distracted, intense, shy, repress, resented, anxious, hyper/hypo, depress, etc. Whatever the answers are and your circumstances, I'll be proactive and focus the problem as a real project to resolve. All those girls are looking for particular trades (beauty, popularity, looks, money, cars, intelligence or not) You may want to consider reshaping your personality to fit into that so you can have more success dating. Your case was my case in first year of college but I analyzed the situation and the remaining years of my single life were a real pleasure. I can reassure you that looks/money little to do with that. be positive and start working on your pet project. Good luck!

That little girl thing is messed up. She's a product of this society. Popularity can get people twisted. One day she might end up ruining her life and nobody would be there. As I see it, growing up is a lot of confusion. She might also realize how wrong she was ten years down the line. So, if you still care for this girl then I think you should be there when she needs you.

You say there are 2 categories of men out, I strongly disagree with. Again, society can also produce these "players", but there can be gentlemen too. It's not a positive way of viewing all other men as cheaters and women beaters because it can wear you down, only thinking how the good guy is losing the battle.

53 girls denied, so what? I know some ugly dudes that are capable of each finding a decent girl girl to bring home to their parents. Maybe you weren't looking in the right place. You know what, I think everything in life has pro's and con's to it. Getting dissed by a girl stinks, but at least you know those shallow women aren't meant for you. Better to find out now than when you're paying child support. Just try not to set you standards too high. If you're not the great looking, then there will be a not so great looking girl out there who can make the perfect wife for you.

As for the college thing, I am pretty much in the same boat as you, bro. lol
Good luck to the both of us there. Remember we don't live forever so don't get too upset if it doesn't go as you wanted. Try to do what you can.

Hey man I feel ya...You sound identical to me. I've given up on asking them out. If they only know ..."no", then screw em. So many of these dumb ******* stay with guys that treat them like ****! I dont mean to call all females *******, but you see my point. Im out here too, and I feel im not that ugly too, no one even knows Im here and available. I have 2 cousins that are only 1 state away and NEVER hear from them. I dont know why I check my email everyday, there is never anything there 'cept, you know--junk.
Im here if you need a friend, just be glad we have the "net" I didnt have that when I was your age. I would also love to hear from the females out there as to why there are nice guys out there, and you stay with an *******.
Peace!