I am 47 and living with my children. I am getting to the point where I don't want to outside unless it is to go to work and then i crawl back in my hole until i absolutely have to leave the house again.  I am scared that I will stay in this rut until i die.

dkny12 dkny12 46-50 3 Responses Oct 9, 2008

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Your not alone on this one buddy. This is the unloveing capitalist society we live in.

To start, show you picture on this EP. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. I would do a routine visit of favorate resturants, clubs and church each week. Friends at work even take vacation trips with the Siera sngles club, where they travel around the world. so what's holding you down.

hi ya hun.....just like to say my mum was in the seem place 7years ago.....she neva went out neva meet any men, neva an didnt have many friends come ova. me an my sister told her she had to do some thing take up a hobbie, dancing, golf, sport anything. so she tuk up kickboxing an she made a few friends, they invited her out a few times an on one nite she found a lovely man that are now engagged to be married.

my point is hun u just need to get out there.......mabe arrange to go out with sum work mates.

u prob heard this all b4.......but sumtimes u really just gota push ur self.

i hope this helps an im really sorr about my spelling

good luck xx