My "best" Friend Stresses Me Out.

She gets mad when I have other friends, she has literally ****** every guy in town and gets pissed if I even say hello to a guy she's been with. Like I want what she's been with or something. It's getting harder and harder to find a guy to date that she hasn't already been with though..I may have to change states. She doesn't take care of her kids the way she should, she will go weeks without giving them a bath. She feeds them, but if they don't eat it quick enough she will eat their food and they have to go without. They are always hungry and stinky when they come to my house. One of her kids she's potty training, and she lets her run around with urine all over herself, all because she doesn't want to get off her lazy *** and take her to the bathroom.

She expects me to be at home, online, or reachable by phone EVERY time she wants to complain to me about how ****** up her day was, how someone just screwed her over. I am so tired of hearing about it. That's most of the reason that I ignore her. I don't take her calls I don't sign on to messenger, and sometimes *yes I know this is bad* I don't answer my door when she comes over. I just can't handle it...she is stressing me out. On the days that I think I can handle her nonsense without getting stressed, she asks me to go to the bars with her, I decline because A. I don't drink and B. I know how she is when she drinks. I don't want to be around that. So she gets pissed and calls me lame, and invites someone else who will go with her, then she tries to rub it in my face that someone else went with her.

I just can't stand it anymore. I am too nice of a person to tell someone to leave me the **** alone forever. So I am slowly drifting myself away from her. I haven't talked to her all week because I have been sick and I haven't talked to anyone.*not even family* so of course that made her mad. So on her twitter she said "Thanks to my new BFF, Shanna I heart you!" Now I am not Shanna...nor do I care to be. I am hoping this is the beginning of the end of our friendship...

Is that bad?
Sweetnobody26 Sweetnobody26
26-30, F
1 Response Aug 5, 2010

I can relate. I have a friend that I wish would stop smothering me or she's acting like my mom. I'm also a really nice person that is too shy and too nice to tell someone or a friend to leave me alone too so I certainly understand how frustrating it is. I'm shy so it's a lot harder to find new friends. Hope things get better for you or that you'll be able to spend less time with your friend. Glad to know I'm not alone!