It Is So Very Sad....
but there is a certain member of my family that has disappointed me beyond forgiving.
My twin brother has always been "concerned" for me. But the problem lies when his concern goes beyond mentioning it and speaking to me in order to better understand or get the correct info from the proverbial horse's mouth. He is trying to make me choose things for me as he would or according to what he believes is "right". But here is the kicker.....I am me and fully capable of making choices on my own. I am a big girl, able to make sound choices about my life, my finances, my children and anything else for that matter without the watchful eye of , well anyone! Being a 30 year old female who has survived a marriage of abuse, rape and mistreatment has taught me quite a bit. So, for someone to think I need their opinion or approval to live my life "properly" in their eyes makes them poorly mistaken in my humble opinion.
I am not stupid, I am not dumb, I am not blinded by stubbornness or spite. I am a woman of moderate beauty, knowledge that I have learned along the way and strength gained from the struggles that have come to me both caused from mistakes and good fortune. I appreciate your initial thought of helping or attempting to keep me safe......but remember all of what I just listed above and BUTT out! Don't even begin to think that my life is in need of you or in any way a mess that needs to be "fixed" by you.
My name is Meg........and I am just fine. Too bad unconditional love and support is beyond you :-(