I Am So Fed Up and Frustrated
Feed Back Please I Worte This For My School Newspaper Today
By:
DavieaXO
Written on January 31st, 2013
The illusion of society
Love yourself before you let someone else love you. You are beautiful just the way you are inside and out. Why let society fool you into thinking fewer clothes is more. At the age 16 is when you really need to start caring about the way you represent yourself. Having too much skin out in the open like, wearing reveling clothes it shows that you are trying to be a sex symbol. The role models we look at today are the Women who are Photo Shopped. The models are Photo Shopped to have sex appeal. What you compare yourself to is unrealistic. The fashion world is adding to these unrealistic standers for women. Guy’s with your pants ‘sagging’, which is having your bottoms lowered down so your boxers show. Sagging your pants does not display gentle behavior. Sagging will not attract you to the right classy young lady that you been keeping your eye on. Ladies wearing the shortest short shorts won’t bring you your prince charming. Every factor about you and your body language ties into one.
The topic of sex, sex seems to make its way around conversations on a daily basis. The number one question is “Are you a virgin?” Whether you choose to answer the question or not, it still lingers in your head. Virginity is a medical term which is defined as the removal of the hymen. Well what is a hymen? The hymen is a thin membrane that partially covers the vaginal opening. The hymen can easily wear away over time due to a variety of activities such as playing sports, tampon usage, menstruation, and even normal movement. If you want to know more, you should be able to see your hymn easily with the help of a flashlight and hand mirror if you are a virgin. Why let society put a name on you? You are a virgin to everything you haven’t done. Maybe you have virgin hair and never dyed it. But society thinks that right after your first time you are nothing. The talk of sex is everywhere, especially in school with more pregnancies going on and the way society has labeled sex on everything. From a poll taken in school at Coconut Creek High out of 96 students walking in the hallways 16 girls and 17 guys are still virgins. The majority of teenagers in this generation are amazed by these results.
You are something whether or not society thinks you are. Just because you had sex or not it doesn’t define you as a person. Mature people understand your personal choice of your virginity. If you had sexual intercourse, with one or more partners being a young lady than you are promiscuous ladies. That’s how society see’s you. For an unknown reason guy’s are looked at different. If you are a guy and had a lot of sexual partner’s society gives you a high five. Why do we have this issue you ask? It is because we let society twist our thoughts around. We let society change the way we view something.
As women if you wear a skirt or a simple pair of shorts you are asking to get rapped. When is it okay to blame the victim? We live in the United States of America, were our land gives us our freedom to the right to do what we want. Society sees it as too much sex appeal. It is a myth Women who are sexually assaulted “ask for it” by the way they dress or act. Fact many Women and young girls of all ages, classes, culture, sexuality, race, and faith are rapped. Attractiveness has little significance. Rapists choose women based on their vulnerability not their physical appearance according to rapecrisis.org. The thing is we let society talk us into believing things that aren’t true and letting the rapist get away with it.
In order to stop society make your own choices stand up for what you believe in. If anyone tries to change your mind listen to them keep an open mind but don’t change who you are. Adult virgins are considered to be back in Modern society. Not according to a beautiful young lady at Coconut Creek High Jacqueline T. Andrade a 10th grader stated “I feel good about being a virgin. There are other people that say “oh sex is great” But I still feel like waiting”. But sex isn’t everything society made it that way and we let them.
When did it become a fashion trend to lose your virginity? How about a new trend like waiting so you don’t regret ever having sex. Jose Martinez a young man at Coconut Creek High said “I personally would have waited. There are too much pregnancies going on. I should of waited it wasn’t the right time for me”. As young adults we need to put on more clothes and dress and act our age. Let’s change the topic of who is having sex in our conversations to I don’t want to have sex because I have my life ahead of me and it’s better to wait when I have my life planned out. And if you don't want to wait be safe. Many people have sex for the same reason just to try it and they keep having sex just because. Some people are in love whatever the case may be, we need to plan for the future and think before we do things. Our bodies are our temple and you only have one treat it nice. Don’t do things you will regret in five years. Ask yourself is it’s worth it. Let’s be the change in our future. Let’s not let society define us by our virginity.
Love yourself before you let someone else love you. You are beautiful just the way you are inside and out. Why let society fool you into thinking fewer clothes is more. At the age 16 is when you really need to start caring about the way you represent yourself. Having too much skin out in the open like, wearing reveling clothes it shows that you are trying to be a sex symbol. The role models we look at today are the Women who are Photo Shopped. The models are Photo Shopped to have sex appeal. What you compare yourself to is unrealistic. The fashion world is adding to these unrealistic standers for women. Guy’s with your pants ‘sagging’, which is having your bottoms lowered down so your boxers show. Sagging your pants does not display gentle behavior. Sagging will not attract you to the right classy young lady that you been keeping your eye on. Ladies wearing the shortest short shorts won’t bring you your prince charming. Every factor about you and your body language ties into one.
The topic of sex, sex seems to make its way around conversations on a daily basis. The number one question is “Are you a virgin?” Whether you choose to answer the question or not, it still lingers in your head. Virginity is a medical term which is defined as the removal of the hymen. Well what is a hymen? The hymen is a thin membrane that partially covers the vaginal opening. The hymen can easily wear away over time due to a variety of activities such as playing sports, tampon usage, menstruation, and even normal movement. If you want to know more, you should be able to see your hymn easily with the help of a flashlight and hand mirror if you are a virgin. Why let society put a name on you? You are a virgin to everything you haven’t done. Maybe you have virgin hair and never dyed it. But society thinks that right after your first time you are nothing. The talk of sex is everywhere, especially in school with more pregnancies going on and the way society has labeled sex on everything. From a poll taken in school at Coconut Creek High out of 96 students walking in the hallways 16 girls and 17 guys are still virgins. The majority of teenagers in this generation are amazed by these results.
You are something whether or not society thinks you are. Just because you had sex or not it doesn’t define you as a person. Mature people understand your personal choice of your virginity. If you had sexual intercourse, with one or more partners being a young lady than you are promiscuous ladies. That’s how society see’s you. For an unknown reason guy’s are looked at different. If you are a guy and had a lot of sexual partner’s society gives you a high five. Why do we have this issue you ask? It is because we let society twist our thoughts around. We let society change the way we view something.
As women if you wear a skirt or a simple pair of shorts you are asking to get rapped. When is it okay to blame the victim? We live in the United States of America, were our land gives us our freedom to the right to do what we want. Society sees it as too much sex appeal. It is a myth Women who are sexually assaulted “ask for it” by the way they dress or act. Fact many Women and young girls of all ages, classes, culture, sexuality, race, and faith are rapped. Attractiveness has little significance. Rapists choose women ba
In order to stop society make your own choices stand up for what you believe in. If anyone tries to change your mind listen to them keep an open mind but don’t change who you are. Adult virgins are considered to be back in Modern society. Not according to a beautiful young lady at Coconut Creek High Jacqueline T. Andrade a 10th grader stated “I feel good about being a virgin. There are other people that say “oh sex is great” But I still feel like waiting”. But sex isn’t everything society made it that way and we let them.
When did it become a fashion trend to lose your virginity? How about a new trend like waiting so you don’t regret ever having sex. Jose Martinez a young man at Coconut Creek High said “I personally would have waited. There are too much pregnancies going on. I should of waited it wasn’t the right time for me”. As young adults we need to put on more clothes and dress and act our age. Let’s change the topic of who is having sex in our conversations to I don’t want to have sex because I have my life ahead of me and it’s better to wait when I have my life planned out. And if you don't want to wait be safe. Many people have sex for the same reason just to try it and they keep having sex just because. Some people are in love whatever the case may be, we need to plan for the future and think before we do things. Our bodies are our temple and you only have one treat it nice. Don’t do things you will regret in five years. Ask yourself is it’s worth it. Let’s be the change in our future. Let’s not let society define us by our virginity.
By:
DavieaXO
Age:
18-21
,
Female
