The Continuos Pressure

We see it on TV,on internet, on streets, commericals ... Everything and everybody says that it is bad to be single. The pressure is continuos. They say that we must find somebody. We must have someone by our side. I say, screw them! Sometimes it's better to be single and lonely then to be heart-broken. My last relationship ended badly. I got heart-broken, and now I feel lonely and sad. But it's not so bad, because when i was in a relationship i was manipulated. I hate being manipulated. But when the lights are down, and night falls, I feel worse, mush more worse. So i say, everybody stop with that pressure, i don't want to be in relationship, not now, just leave me with my loneliness and sadness. When I'm ready, and when the time is right, i will meet someone...

Sorry for my bad English :)
SaleSmrad SaleSmrad
22-25, M
2 Responses Jan 11, 2012

I completely understand you. Many people date just for dating itself, not for some feelings. They jump from one shallow relationship to another. I don't need that. It's been more than a half a year since my bad breakup and I want to feel love and to be loved again. But the lesson I've learnt from my ex is that you can't trust anyone even the man you love. <br />
So yes, sometimes it's better to be alone than to quarrel all the time and to be deceived

First, thank you for your comment. I appriciate you for that :D I hate being single, but i also hate that pressure that i'm talking about. My friends are all opssessed with that idea of finding someone. It's no matter what kind of person she/he is. I'm not that kind of man. I want to be loved, and to love, truly. When i feel sad i go for running, but if there were horses near by, i would spent day in their company .<br />
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P.S. Sorry for my bad English :)