There is a time to be spontaneous and then there is a time to be level headed and leave the spontaneity out of the picture.

Let me give you an idea of when spontaneity would suck…. You invite yourself to my home with the promise that you will make me a romantic dinner. What are you even thinking?? Do you think I am going to have all the stuff in my fridge and pantry for this romantic meal… You open my fridge to find some pineapple chunks,  cottage cheese, beer left from my last boyfriend (I don’t drink normally) a half dozen eggs, some bread, and deli sliced turkey, and if you are really hungry there is the Gerber chicken sticks in the very back of the fridge that I use as treats for the Prince.  You open the pantry and oh wow!!!!! You find Pinto Beans, Mac n Cheese, and Ramen Noodles.  My point “Spontaneous romantic dinners” do not exist and need planning.

Being spontaneous in our everyday lives is another thing.  I love when a man sends me a text message for no reason, or I get the little gift.  Those are spontaneous things that don’t creep me out.  Being spontaneous in the bedroom is awesome too. Trying new things is something that is very exciting and ohhhhh so stimulating. 

fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
46-50, F
Mar 11, 2010