I Get Judged By My Appearance

People often judge me do to my appearance; generally people only care about appearance. I am ugly, so I am considered inferior to the majority of the population. I have been called ugly by many people, and I know there isn't much I can do about it. I am average weight (and strength), but I am short and very unattractive. As soon as I talk to someone who is greater or equal than average, the tend to make generalizations about me due to my looks. It really bothers me, but there's nothing I can do about it.

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2 Responses Apr 8, 2010

I find it disheartening to see the truth of what "beauty" is... skinny skeleton models, fake boobs, cosmetic surgery, or what ? I am considered "attractive" but I am none of those. But you know what I find the most unattractive? Are people who judge me on my looks. I hate when guys stare at my **** rather than my eyes , I hate when people think that because I smile that I am somehow less intelligent or to be underestimated, and I think societies obsession with looks destroys peoples self-esteem. <br />
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I wish I could make you feel better about yourself but I cannot. I wish that society would stop its obsession with physically defined beauty. <br />
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I hope you one day grow the mental ability to shrug-off the mean words and become a more self-assured person.<br />
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Take care...

Men look at pretty women, women do the same to men. Men do look at women chest and other attributes for one reason and it not just sexual. Most men will never go to a beautiful women so, they look at your body because we know well never have you. It nice to look but were taught not to touch. If you went up to these men and start talking to them, they would look into your eyes.

I am not the most beautiful person in the world either. I have been teased a lot throughout my life because I didnt "look like everyone else". But all I can say to you is that there is someone for everyone. Dont let vain people push you away or discourage you from love.....everyone deserves love, you just have to look in the right place. I am now married to a wonderful man that I thought I could never have, but this happened because he was not a person that dated only because of looks. If your looks matter that much, then they wont make you happy in the long run away....Keep your head up...God Bless