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I Am So Very Lucky To Be Loved, The Way My Husband Loves Me

My Very Own Angel:

By: Flowerlilly77
Written on November 16th, 2010
Age: 46-50 , Female
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  • Flowerlilly77

    Hi AnonymouslyWritten,

    I want to thank you for your comment. I also want to share with you that my husband and I fit together perfectly, and have been together for 10 years prior to our marriage. We have over come many hard times, all of which has only made our love stronger and brought us closer together. Our home is each other, home is where your heart is. We know each other very well, we finish each others sentences, even know what the other is thinking at the time. To this day my husband gets surprised because I know what he is thinking or was thinking and he does it with me. We are connected in every way. We love one another very much. We for years followed one another around from town to town without knowing it, even born in the same hospital. I feel we were destined for one another and for that I am grateful to God above. When we married we told one another its forever, and it was meant to be as such. There is no "D" word. So many people give up on there relationships, and that I find sad. If each person gives 100%, not 50/50 like so many think, your relationship will work out. Anything we go through in life will just make us both stronger like it has done already. We are so very much in love and happy, he is my soul mate. My home. Flowerlilly77

    Nov 21, 2010
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  • gr8jesus

    Hi Fl77 my best friend..…I think that husbands and wives can make all kinds of arrangements that are perfectly workable between each other. It is important that both parties are aware of the expectations that the other are bringing into the marriage so that there isn't friction later on.

    One you should treasure, but not as a possession,

    Who needs to be loved, not treated with aggression.

    Her value is more than all the world's treasures,

    Not just the sum of scale's unit measures.

    She should always be built up, not torn down,

    By all the words you speak, when she is around.

    She needs to be hugged and not pushed away,

    Especially when you both having a really bad day.

    Words spoken to her in haste and anger,

    Can place her fragile heart in danger.

    She should be admired for her boundless love,

    And looked upon as a true gift from Above.

    Not used as a target for all your frustration,

    But held close and kissed with loving admiration.

    You should always appreciate her commitment to you,

    And not take for granted what she's given up for you!

    Kiss her and love her all that you possibly can,

    And don't be embarrassed to be seen holding her hand.

    Treasure each day as if it were the last,

    And at the end of your life you won't be regretting your past.



    God bless you and be happy in life.

    :)

    Nov 21, 2010
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  • AnonymouslyWritten

    I love that you shared this story, write more, I am intrigued. I think you lift him up just as much as he has lifted you, that is what true love is about. If you can't build up everything together, it will never work and I don't mean the home, the bills, I mean literally every thing from the smallest look you give each other to you both wanting to please each other on every level of commitment...



    You have to fit perfectly the bends of one another... and never lose sight of that even if and when there are hard times. I think if you fit perfectly the hard times will never come between the two of you, they will happen to both of you as One. And from that you both compliment each other on how you handle them...



    Thank you for sharing my new friend, I look forward to more...

    Nov 20, 2010
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  • Flowerlilly77

    Hi destiney24,

    You are so right, we both are so blessed and I look forward to spending the rest of my life with him. Your right again, we do cherish eachother and forever will. Our family and friends, also strangers tell us how how happily inlove we look. Thats because we are very much happy and inlove, we still even hold hands after all these years and he still gives me butterflies in my tummy just by being close to him. Thank you for saying that I'm strong and amazing, but I turn to mush when it comes to my husband. Thank you destiney for your sweet comment, Flowerlilly77

    Nov 17, 2010
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  • Flowerlilly77

    Hi JoyceAnne,

    First let me thank you for your comment. Yes I can be open with my husband and him with me on everything. I have never been able to be vulnerable with anyone eles prior to my husband, he has made it easy for me to be just me. I am blessed in so many ways with my husband, he truly is one in a million. We will do what ever it takes to remain as close as we are, and we take the time to ensure eachother's happiness in our marriage. Divorce is not an option in our world, we will work out what ever problem arises. Thankfully we both understand that marriage is hard work and must be maintained at all costs. When we walk through the door all issues from work to other are left outside, so only our love for one another is allowed in the door. We call it our own little bubble and in our bubble we are together, playful, happy, safe and free to just be and with out the problems of the day. Thanks again JoyceAnne for your sweet comment, Flowerlilly77

    Nov 17, 2010
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  • Flowerlilly77

    Hi gr8jesus,

    Thank you ever so much for your prayer, that means more than you may think. Yes my husband is the most importaint person in my life, I share everything with him my thoughts, dreams, pains, sadness, hopes, just everything. He is my home. Thank you for you comment,

    Flowerlilly77

    Nov 17, 2010
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  • JoyceAnne

    This is wonderful! I have moments where I feel this way and other moments ... where I don't. It sounds like you can be very open and vulnerable around your husband without fear.... that sounds like true intimacy. You are truly blessed!

    Nov 17, 2010
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  • gr8jesus

    Very true said my friend....Fy77.your lucky and i think that after marriage, husband is the most important person in a woman's life. He is one person with whom she can talk about anything. Love gives you an ideal platform to express your heart-felt feelings for your husband.



    "I said a prayer for you today.

    I just took a moment to say,

    With heartfelt thankfulness,

    How much I know I'm blessed

    With the love so deep and true

    That I receive from you...…."

    Be happy in life....

    :)

    Nov 17, 2010
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