I Have Social Anxiety And Can't Get Women.

I guess you could say I am lucky for the level of SAD that I have. I mean people think I'm a little shy or quiet, but most people don't view me as a wierdo. I don't judge anyone who has a high level of anxiety, because i can defiantly relate. I get nervous when talking to people i don't know well, but women especially. Almost all of my friends are male and I've never had a girlfriend. In fact I'm not even awkward around men, but I can't talk to girls. It's weird and i think that every girl I talk to thinks I'm boring or something. I met a girl at a party a few months ago and I got her number. I started texting her for a week and then when i met up with her in school, i talked to her a little bit, but always cut my visits short because i was nervous and can't think of things to say. Then about a week later, i snuck over to her house, and we got drunk together where she told me that i was awkward. After that she didn't want anything to do with me, when i started to have feelings for her. This really sucks and I don't know how to overcome it.
doubledeezy doubledeezy
18-21, M
1 Response Jun 17, 2012

Honestly, if she doesn't like/accept you for who you are, she's not worth your time. I know it sounds cliche or something, but it's the absolute truth. I use my social awkwardness as a way to make people laugh. I've gotten good at turning it into a joke and the ladies love it. Embrace it.