I just had a baby, and my ex broke up with me a month prior to his birth. He still talks to me. He still says he loves me, but he says there's just too much going on in his life. I moved back in with my mom, and now he's always hanging out with this girl whom he claims is just a friend.
alouro93 alouro93
22-25, F
2 Responses Aug 25, 2014

I'm sorry for your situation! It sounds really tough. I'm not sure what you should do, but I think you should focus on his actions and not his words. He may say he still loves you, but he's hanging out with other girls and he's giving you excuses. There's no such thing as "too much going on". If he wants to, he will find time.

I went out with a guy that I really liked, and he was always giving me excuses but saying that he still wanted to be with me. It really hurt. I decided from then on, that if a guy doesn't go out of his way to show that he's interested and that he cares, then I'm just going to assume that he doesn't. It's saved me a lot of heartache.

That is very tough. I am in a similar situation but i don't have a kid and i have a bf. But i love my ex and he started hanging out with a girl who is just a "friend". We talk about getting back together but who knows.
Are you talking to anyone else?

Nope. I don't have time to talk to other guys lol.

Does your ex express wanting to get back with you?

Yes he does.

Let him know you are serious about getting back with him but seriously inquire about this "friend" and if he acts suspicious about it then that should help you best see if you should stay stuck on him or try and move forward.

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