I dated a guy over 17 yrs ago when i pregnant with my first child which wasnt his. I knew and totally liked this guy "M" for years before we actually got together. A friend offered to set me up with a real nice who happend to a ex of her sisters. Im like great another loser. I made this friend to walk around the place where we were suppose to meet this great guy when we finally sat down. "M" walked in and our eyes met and we just clicked. We dated for a few months. I went to visit my sister and family in another province didnt come back to the province where we met for over 2 yrs. "M" and I lost contact. I found out we werent far from each others thoughts. I somehow kept incontact with his mom for a yrs.
In Dec 2008 i decided to put his brothers name in a social group. We became friends and have been talking ever since. His brother who ive been talking to said his brother was on facebook. I told him to tell "M" to add me if he wanted too. May 21 2009 i found "M" and sent a friends request i waited on pins on needles i wasn't sure if "M" wanted to talk to me. On May 22 he not only accepted the friends request but also sent me the sweetest msg i will ever receive and told me to give him a call. i gave him my number and told him i will be waiting for him to call me. Within 5 minutes "M" and i were talking on the phone. He came down that night drove over 2 hrs to see me. we spent the weekend talking as if 17yrs havent gone by. we figured it was too much too soon and had no contact from may 25 till june 12th. I decided we both needed time to digest everything and really see and think about us. i called him june 12 and we talked.
we both deeply care for each other and maybe there is a future for us
I STILL NOT OVER HIM AND APPARENTLY HES STILL NOT OVER ME. Hes a great guy