I am a 42 year old Black man fron Detroit. I am single with no kids. I grew up in Detroit but feel alienated every moment of my life.I have felt that i do not belong here as far back as I can remember. I am intelligent, capable and a "fake" social butterfly. I have a few very good friends and occasionally go out with them. I have a fairly good career although I'm currently unemployed (Auto industry). I just want to know what it is that i'm missing. To feel loved and that this is where i belong. I have not clue how to achieve this. I'm desparate. I'm hurting and alone. I would leave Detroit, but have no place to go. Any suggestions...?