I Know What You Are Thinking

I Am looking and have your same issues. Have been wanting to try sucking **** for a long time, just have no idea where to find someone safe. Have looked on Craig list but, seems risky. I don't want to get beat up or robbed. I enjoy getting a blow job and would like to pleasure another man. Want to feel him get hard in my mouth and squirt his man juice. Not ready for anal, just want to be an oral sub. (in Cincinnati)

I totally understand. I had a breif experience as a teenager but nothing since and I know that I love to ****, lick *****, suck **** and also ma very curious about sucking ****. I never think about kissing or hugging another man like I would a woman, but only touching his hard ****, stroking it like I do my own, then finally taking it in my mouth and taste his seed!

trust me a big hot **** feels good when you have it ***

i have allways wanted to suck someones **** wish i new someone who would let me so i can finnally see what it is like and to swallow pleasee help

One worry i have is demasculinization

its not a straight/gay thing ! stop labeling people - you can label a lifestyle (gay in like living with a guy, having sex with him all the time and in a committed relationship). being someone who is married but enjoys jacking off in womens shoes, watching either women and guys sucking **** and would really like to have a guy suck his **** (and maybe try it too)...I just dont know how I can get in a safe situation - and I dont CARE what u are thinking !

Well I can say that non of this is unusual and isn't a threat to your heterosexuality at all. However if you act on these desires and it is found out it will have social consequences that will be all about questioning your sexuality. I am a gay man and can tell you when a sexual urge is repressed it gains physical and mental momentum and often becomes distorted into something entirely different than what it actually is. Not to mention the first attempts are often awkward and anxiety provoking and blowing your load can often be followed by a severe backlash of guilt, shame and hatred for your very recent object of desire. The guilt eventually gives way to desire again and you do it again and so on. If you are unable to live your sexual life openly and honestly the consequences of being found out can be devastating to you and your family. Despite most people's perceptions it is very difficult for gay men to accept themselves due to similar conditioning you have been through as heterosexual men. I would imagine it is even more complicated for straight men who want to have sex with men. I ****** a lot of women before I came out. I want to have ***** again before I die, but I am 100% gay, because I see myself living my life with a man. Your absolutely normal, sexuality isn't designated to stay within certain boundaries, unfortunately we don't live in a society wise enough to accept that. Good luck to you all.

well i would ordinarily say that i would be as dressed up for him first to see if its pleaseing for him to see what iam wearing before they want me to suck them off as each is different

I have no desire to kiss, fondle a man. I don't see one and think I would like to suck his ****, but I can look at a nice **** and yes I want to suck it. I like the feel of a **** in my mouth and I enjoy making him ***.

I am a straight guy, however i do have a reoccuring fantasy where I dress as a cute girl and give head to a guy. This feelinig has been getting stronger recently and think I really need to scratch this itch. I have even been practicing my deep throat technique and have got pretty good. Now I just need the guy.

I've also discovered the sporadic desire to be dressed as a woman and have sex with a straight guy.

But I'm very masculine despite that I see myself as a bisexual guy and although I like to jerk of with panties, I won't comfortably wear them to work or in public under my clothes. I don't like the idea of crossdressing myself that much either but I think it's exactly for that reason that I find it erotic - exactly as you say - to see another guy having fun with me. I guess it boils down to finding the right guy to be comfortable or feel kinky / risky / playful with. But I definitely fantasize about playing with a guy all dressed up. I've always loved that idea, going to gay clubs with my friends I was always secretly checking out the drag queens. They were nice and I won't exclude that but it's a different experience. Somehow it's very rare to find a masculine guy just in women's underwear that would engage in playing with another male - it's mostly the straight guys and their wives dressing up. Gender play is a mindfuck. Would be nice to make a butch guy up as my ***** knowing he is actually straight. A bit twisted I know. Glad to see I'm not the only one comfortably pushing the limits.



I also understand straight guys wanting to have sexual physical interaction with other straight guys. If you're not both straight it wouldn't be purely sexual. Straight women do it all the time for us in ****. Some of them are predominantly straight and they openly admit to loving a wet girl *****. Why can't men do the same. It's sex, enjoy it for what it is. I also don't want commitment, not from guys or girls.

To JimmyTheGreek;

I am completely in agreement with you.

No commitment or other touching.

Just a man's **** and my mouth..

It's a strange feeling for me. I have no desire to cuddle, hug or kiss a guy and I don't want to give or receive anal sex, but I would really like to suck another guy's penis.

Ask youreslf what you want out of sucking a guy off?

If the guy is cool, I could imagine making him feel good. It's a strange feeling I usually live through my wife. Wanting to make people feel good. An ****** is the ultimate solution.

I'm pretty much thinking the same thing. I have dreamed of and even fantasized about it but I think the real thing would be too weird. It's kind of hot though thinking of doing something like that "accidentally" if I was in a ********* with my wife. I wonder if I would.