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I Know What You Are Thinking

I know what you are thinking: why would you think you are straight? And the answer is: I just know. I'm attracted to women all the time, hot as hell for them. I've never approached even having a crush on a man. I'm pretty sure I never will. I have no desire whatsoever to have sex with a man. But every now and then I have this fantasy. The fantasy is intense and interesting, and I doubt the real thing would be. In the fantasy, I mostly imagine myself as a woman, just because I couldn't really see how another man would be aroused by a man's body. Maybe I'm just trying to make vivid to myself the other side. Or maybe I'm completely rationalizing and lurking deep in some closet: you decide.
helpfulguy helpfulguy 26-30, M 18 Responses Nov 25, 2007

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Just try it.. if the chemistry is right youl like it. Im not attracted to men, but do like a nice penis once in a while...
There is something to be said about just sex... no sytings just sex

I've had a few experiences, but have never been comfortable. I'd really like to meet someone who wants to get together and just explore each other's *****. I have NO interest in kissing or dating. I would like to meet someone close to me who is interested in the same thing. I just don't really know how.

Mmmmm message me???

I'm in the same boat as you but I have actually lived out the experience. I have a girlfriend that I love very much but tried ones to suck a guy and it was even better then I had imagined. But I could never fall in love with one or kiss a guy.

I Am looking and have your same issues. Have been wanting to try sucking **** for a long time, just have no idea where to find someone safe. Have looked on Craig list but, seems risky. I don't want to get beat up or robbed. I enjoy getting a blow job and would like to pleasure another man. Want to feel him get hard in my mouth and squirt his man juice. Not ready for anal, just want to be an oral sub. (in Cincinnati)

Im with you on tjat.. too bd im in north cali

I totally understand. I had a breif experience as a teenager but nothing since and I know that I love to ****, lick *****, suck **** and also ma very curious about sucking ****. I never think about kissing or hugging another man like I would a woman, but only touching his hard ****, stroking it like I do my own, then finally taking it in my mouth and taste his seed!

trust me a big hot **** feels good when you have it ***

i have allways wanted to suck someones **** wish i new someone who would let me so i can finnally see what it is like and to swallow pleasee help

One worry i have is demasculinization

Well I can say that non of this is unusual and isn't a threat to your heterosexuality at all. However if you act on these desires and it is found out it will have social consequences that will be all about questioning your sexuality. I am a gay man and can tell you when a sexual urge is repressed it gains physical and mental momentum and often becomes distorted into something entirely different than what it actually is. Not to mention the first attempts are often awkward and anxiety provoking and blowing your load can often be followed by a severe backlash of guilt, shame and hatred for your very recent ob<x>ject of desire. The guilt eventually gives way to desire again and you do it again and so on. If you are unable to live your sexual life openly and honestly the consequences of being found out can be devastating to you and your family. Despite most people's perceptions it is very difficult for gay men to accept themselves due to similar conditioning you have been through as heterosexual men. I would imagine it is even more complicated for straight men who want to have sex with men. I ****** a lot of women before I came out. I want to have ***** again before I die, but I am 100% gay, because I see myself living my life with a man. Your absolutely normal, sexuality isn't designated to stay within certain boundaries, unfortunately we don't live in a society wise enough to accept that. Good luck to you all.

that is a very enlightening post, thank you for your contribution.

well i would ordinarily say that i would be as dressed up for him first to see if its pleaseing for him to see what iam wearing before they want me to suck them off as each is different

I have no desire to kiss, fondle a man. I don't see one and think I would like to suck his ****, but I can look at a nice **** and yes I want to suck it. I like the feel of a **** in my mouth and I enjoy making him ***.

I am a straight guy, however i do have a reoccuring fantasy where I dress as a cute girl and give head to a guy. This feelinig has been getting stronger recently and think I really need to scratch this itch. I have even been practicing my deep throat technique and have got pretty good. Now I just need the guy.

I've also discovered the sporadic desire to be dressed as a woman and have sex with a straight guy. <br />
But I'm very masculine despite that I see myself as a bisexual guy and although I like to jerk of with panties, I won't comfortably wear them to work or in public under my clothes. I don't like the idea of crossdressing myself that much either but I think it's exactly for that reason that I find it erotic - exactly as you say - to see another guy having fun with me. I guess it boils down to finding the right guy to be comfortable or feel kinky / risky / playful with. But I definitely fantasize about playing with a guy all dressed up. I've always loved that idea, going to gay clubs with my friends I was always secretly checking out the drag queens. They were nice and I won't exclude that but it's a different experience. Somehow it's very rare to find a masculine guy just in women's underwear that would engage in playing with another male - it's mostly the straight guys and their wives dressing up. Gender play is a mindfuck. Would be nice to make a butch guy up as my ***** knowing he is actually straight. A bit twisted I know. Glad to see I'm not the only one comfortably pushing the limits. <br />
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I also understand straight guys wanting to have sexual physical interaction with other straight guys. If you're not both straight it wouldn't be purely sexual. Straight women do it all the time for us in ****. Some of them are predominantly straight and they openly admit to loving a wet girl *****. Why can't men do the same. It's sex, enjoy it for what it is. I also don't want commitment, not from guys or girls.

To JimmyTheGreek;<br />
I am completely in agreement with you.<br />
No commitment or other touching.<br />
Just a man's **** and my mouth..

I'm with you Grandpa. I don't like caressing, kissing or cuddling with a man. I like women for those activities. Nor do I want to dress up as a girl. A little conversation, get naked and put lips to ****. I like reciprocation but it isn't necessary.

Sounds like we are on exactly the same wave length. Nut how do you find a willing recipient? And I would prefer it not to be a gay guy either.

I would like the conversation to be. "Get on your knees and open wide."

Yes, that would be more than sufficient for me too.

Mind you, as I am getting older and arthritis is affecting my knees, I would now rather sit on a chair, have him walk over to me, let me see his bulging pants and command me to take it out and then let me have my way with it. I would not object to his hands on the back of my head to guide me iether.

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It's a strange feeling for me. I have no desire to cuddle, hug or kiss a guy and I don't want to give or receive anal sex, but I would really like to suck another guy's penis.

That's exactly it for me too. I just love the thought of a penis in my mouth and doing the things to it that I love to receive. I don't even imagine the man it's attached to

I'm new to this site, but that's actually how I feel Billyboy1961. I know I'm straight as I love women, but I just have this fantasy of sucking another guy's penis. It might be that I'm infatuated with my own penis, but don’t have the ability to suck my penis; therefore, that fantasy transcends itself into sucking another guy’s penis. I would like to meet someone that has the same curiosity as I do and be up for trying a new experience.

me,too

Ask youreslf what you want out of sucking a guy off?

Good way of expressing it. Thanks, may I use that?

tyvm dorobo, i have always said to get the answer one must ask the right question. For me to feel sexually aroused, when his **** is in my mouth &amp; my hand is wrapped around it, stroking it, feeling how warm &amp; hard it is, licking the veins, licking his balls &amp; having his balls in my mouth &amp; to make him ***

The balls part would be optional for me, I think.. I guess will never know until I finally get the opportunity. Even swallowing his ***. I sure hope I would because it would give him the greatest satisfaction I'm sure, and make him want to return for more. In my mind, I also imagine continuing to suck until he returns to the flacid state and gently slips out past my lips.

wow@"continuing to suck until he returns to the flacid state and gently slips out past my lips"... good thought, i didn't think of that lol

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If the guy is cool, I could imagine making him feel good. It's a strange feeling I usually live through my wife. Wanting to make people feel good. An ****** is the ultimate solution.

I'm pretty much thinking the same thing. I have dreamed of and even fantasized about it but I think the real thing would be too weird. It's kind of hot though thinking of doing something like that "accidentally" if I was in a ********* with my wife. I wonder if I would.