Better And BetterIt has been nearly a month since I 'confessed' to my husband that I want him to dominate me.
My confidence is growing every day; my husband is showing so much interest in this for me. It is getting easier for (me) us to talk openly about all of this, and he is making (and implementing) suggestions of his own.
That is (for me, anyway) our biggest accomplishment so far: my desires are largely centered around my need to be led. I want him to be very direct when he wants something, and 'request' little. Even if he wants me to come up with my own 'plan of action', hearing him command me to pleasure him in my way is exactly what I need and want.
Even though I am still feeling shy about saying certain things aloud still, it's becoming easier every time.
Every day we are learning together, exploring each other. We are loving each other in a new way, and I am grateful and proud.
If there is anyone reading this who has a 'secret fantasy' - don't remain silent. Learn everything you can, and do it. The first step really IS the hardest; everything after is your heart's desire. It's worth it.
deleted 26-30 4 Responses 5 Nov 20, 2012