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Many Heartbreaks

Doubt there is a person alive that hasn't suffered from heartbreak. Some more, some less.

Heartbreaks over the years caused me to build walls of defense.
I hid myself behind those walls. Allowed no one for many years to even peek inside my walls. I found what I enjoyed doing alone and did them.

BUT

Which hurts more?
Heartache from becoming someone in someones past?
Or the everyday heartache you know in your solitary hideout behind those walls filled with loneliness?

One does find when hiding long enough behind those walls that life begins to stagnate...
oldfarmguy oldfarmguy 56-60, M 5 Responses May 30, 2012

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After my last relationship ended over 2 years ago, I put the walls up. Then recently I let someone in, only to find that he was toying with me. I want to put the wall back up :(

That's waht caused me to close and seal the doors last time. I was in a bad habbit of finding the wrong kind of woman. I learned to really look deep and pay attention to what I was finding and not make sudden decisions to let anyone in without fully getting to know the person and their bad points. It took me many years to learn the right way. Hope my making you think with the story from my life will help you. Good luck!!!

I totally understand what you are going through. Just happened to me three days ago & I'm wondering if this person really loved me at all. She told me she did all of the time. I was a great boyfriend to her & would have been an even better husband. I miss her so much. I still love her. How do I move forward without her?

I totally understand what you are going through. Just happened to me three days ago & I'm wondering if this person really loved me at all. She told me she did all of the time. I was a great boyfriend to her & would have been an even better husband. I miss her so much. I still love her. How do I move forward without her?

My last was was over 12 years ago. I closed the doors and shut down. Stayed that way for all of those years. Only thing I could do was put them and my desires in my past and find what I like doing alone and do it. Took over 5 years to get the groin under any form of control... Recently though there was a very wonderful woman who found a hole in my walls and whispered the right words to make me want to take a look. I looked and liked what I found. Wish I could say what you will go through is easy, but it's not. Be strong and believe in yourself. Good luck.

Sorry for that , but there must be a person somewhere will find u , and will full fill ur life with love...

After over 12 years she did : )

thank you for letting me in. : )

How could I not?