My ex broke my heart, I can't seem to get over her. It's like I can't do anything any more I'm really really anxious it gets hard for me to breathe and my heart beats so fast. She told me that she wanted space to see if she actually wanted to be with me...then she went a slept with another guy and realized I was the one. I got mad at her and yelled and said some things. I did that because she sent me a misleading text basically telling me that we'll get back together and we're not actually broken up. Now she's making it seem like it's my fault and that we can't get back together because of what I said. No one cares to listen that I really felt cheated on and that's why I acted the way I did. I have no one to talk to and I have no friends to go out with. I'm basically trapped and haunted by my thoughts and anxiety.
Experiencezzzz Experiencezzzz
22-25, M
3 Responses Mar 26, 2014

Wow. The same thing pretty much happened to me. I dated someone who I thought we both were madly in love with each other. He kissed another girl while we were dating, apologized and I said that's okay. Then he broke up with me because he wasn't sure about me. He slept with another person during that break up. He came back to me saying he knows I'm the one and he'll never do it again. So I said it's okay. Recently, he broke up with me again for the second time saying he lost interest. It hurts. I have no other friends. He was all I had and he ripped me up to pieces just like that.

You should check out EXaholics.com. It's a great resource when trying to get over heartbreak. Very supportive community all going through the same things and great experts & therapists are available. It's so helpful.

Aww I am soo soo sorry there. Hang in there!! It will all be over. It's not easy at all I know. But just hang in there.
Don't get back to her. She just wanted pleasure and you know what? You'll find better
Keep yourself busy. Go online. Do stuff. Go for a run and do your best to forget. I am not saying that you will but it helps.
Hey I'm here if you need someone to talk to
I hope you feel better x