I really have no clue how to meet / attract women anymore! I just don't know how to get past the automatic defenses, I lack the confidence or optimism to believe that the next one will be anything but a dismal failure like all my past experiences with women, and honestly I lack the energy and motivation to try. I feel like I'm well on the path to being a male version of the "cat-lady" spinster - but I'm at a complete loss for ideas about how to change things.
steve66oh steve66oh
46-50, M
2 Responses Aug 23, 2014

Have you tried to give volunteering a go?
Why - then it is just great to hang out with people who like life and to give something back. Then this will build up your skills with others.
If you read - then read autobiography of people that you admire -then you can use this topic to discuss with others.
I have met many people doing Yoga/Ti Qi
Then their are walking groups (tennis or any others activity)
I have been in the Big Sister/Little Sister program. Your city should have the Big Bother - then you can help be a big brother to a young boy with life issues.
Quote for you:
Be content with what you have;
Rejoice in the way things are.
When you realize there is nothing lacking,
The whole world belongs to you:
Tao Te Ching

Try corny pick up lines