My Mother Has Borderline And I Dont Know How To Feel Or Heal.
My mother gave me this book "surviving a parent with borderline.." As i am reading it i realize that she truly must have it because everything fits. However why would she give this to me? Is this one of those "lucid moments" that the book is talking about or is this yet another one of her manipulation tactics? Either way the book is helping i think however it implies that it may be better for me if i nevr talked to her again but how do i read something that is telling me that it is not her fault but i should still leave her for it. On the other hand i am also very angry that she can blame everything she has done to me on illness al i just suppose to let her do whatever and remind myself that its not her fault? I cant do that.