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The So Called "mother" Who Has Bpd (among Other Disorders)

i am talking with her briefly on the phone and instead of saying "i cant hear you" she just keeps saying ...'oh oh oh". So I say, "can you hear me?"
she says, "I can hear you" in an angry voice
I say, "what did I say?"
She says, "I CAN HEAR YOU! I JUST CANT MAKE OUT WHAT YOU ARE SAYING!"
She is a freak. I have hated what she has done to me all my life. Had to have serious intense therapy to undo all her hatred and sexual abuse and violence.
I am really looking forward to the day when I wont have to call her (every other day) just to keep the peace.
mama12345678 mama12345678 51-55, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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I see this post is years old, but I must tell you I have told my mother the week before mothers day this year to get out of my life. I told her I don't give a f@(% any more and her response to me: "I'm out." Wow. THANK YOU MOM. I used to have addictive behavior, calling her daily, all the while having numb lips and shaking and out of breath all to be lied to repeatedly, etc. You know the drills. There is no shortage of drills. I am here to tell you that, you no longer have to call her, ever. You are not obligated to take care of her, or do anything for her. I will never see, hear or speak to my mother ever again. Not ever.

i relate