hey girls. i had a pretty rough weekend so i thought i'd vent a little and see if anyone had some advice for me. my marine anthony came home friday. i went to get him from the airport and everything was fine. we went to get some food that night and then i stayed home with our daughter because he wanted to go see his friends and we had made plans for saturday. so when saturday comes around, i went all out dinner and hotel reservations and i wanted it to be a surprise so we were supposed to meet up at dinner and see a movie and spend some time together. he called me at around 11 that night after not hearing from him and asked me if i was gonna hate him if he bailed cuz he wanted to see a fight that was on ppv. i just told him that like even if i said yes i wouldnt be able to enjoy our time together because i know he wants to be somewhere else. i had a really bad feeling but i just let it go. stayed at the hotel myself had some wine and went to sleep. i see him sunday and saw in his phone that he had been talking to his ex. that he went to see her saturday night and that they were telling eachother i love you and i literally threw up i was so upset. it was his day to spend time with his daughter so i just told him we'd talk about it later and to have fun with her. come to find out that he dumped her at his sisters house for 6 1/2 hours (1-730) to go to a cook out. so i told him that if he didnt wanna see her i would go get her. i was having separation anxiety and i missed her lol. so he went and picked her up and went back to the cookout which i asked him not to do cuz i dont want her around all the germs and they were drinking and smoking...not for babies. So i look online and i see pics of him his ex and the baby....WTFFFFFFFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!! so still i let it go. didnt say anything to him about it. called him cuz i wanted to see the baby before she went to sleep and he decided that he was going to ignore my calls. and not txt me back.... excuse me? you're going to ignore me now??? so i called his mother and went to his house. saw my baby hug and kiss and was walking out the door when ant runs out behind me sayin he wants to talk. i told him no. i was rly mad and i didnt want to. LADIES. HE CHASED ME TO MY CAR. STARTED BANGING ON THE WINDOWS TELLING ME THAT HE WOULD BREAK THEM ALL IN IF I DIDNT GET OUT OF THE CAR AND WHEN I GOT OUT HE PUT HIS HANDS ON ME. his sisters jumped on him and pulled him away and i drove around the block...do you really expect me to be okay with my daughter staying there with him like that??? so i went back packed up her stuff and put her in the car... he followed me home started yelling at me with the baby in the car i drove off to the police station where he still got out and started banging on the windows while the baby is sleeping in the back seat. i drove back to his house and had to call his mother and ask her to come outside and take his keys when he got there so i could go home...he left today and i went to a parade with the baby. he came and saw her and started a fight with me on the street....WHAT DID I DO WRONG??? hes trying to justify his actions based on something i did 3 years ago cuz its the only bad thing ive ever done in our entire relationship. idk what to do. i love him but this is ridic. i cant allow this around my baby. i dont want to keep her from him but when hes obviously violent and unstable...what else can i do?