Almost A Year, And Only Been Together For One Month

john and I actually went to school together, we had the same group of friends, swam on the same swim team, but never EVER spoke more than 3 words to each other. The years continued, he went to college for about two years and then decided to join the marines. i stayed in school, and the summer before my senior year, he came home one day on leave. like i mentioned before, we had the same group of friends from high school, so of course we all met up. all i can say is when i saw him... DAMN... that was NOT the John i remembered. this John looked real sexy, great posture, well mannered, well spoken, and did i mention sexy? anyway, i saw him later that night at a party, had a bit to drink and decided, whatever! i will go up to him and talk to him. my pick up line? "isnt it true that marines get paid more if theyre married?" he said yes... i said "oh heeeeey" ... yes, i know...very romantic. either way, it worked, he took my number and we went on a date the next time he came home. weve been great since then. its been almost 11 months since that date. sadly (i actually counted) weve only spent 31 days physically together. everything else has been through skype, email, phone, bbm, and its been hard. he is stationed in cali, were both from nj. i had to wait for school to finish and then he deployed this year in february. :( supposedly he comes back the 1st week of september, just in time for our 1 year :) lots more has happened in between, but thats it in a nutshell. i miss him dearly and cant wait for him to come home and then finally move to cali with him.
mj0610 mj0610
22-25, F
5 Responses Jul 29, 2010

omg this describes my relationship to the tee!!! lol. I went to the same school with my bf. and never paid any mind to him.l had the same friends said a few words to each other. It wasn't until he did something on my facebook where i was like who the hell is this... and I recognized him. I couldn't believe how much he had changed we basically exchanged numbs and have been talking every since dec. It wasn't until july 4th where we saw each other for the first time in va beach since hs and since we started talking in dec. (we skped but you know its not the same) He came home for 2 weeks and i spent the majority of the time with him. but that was only 4 days plus the 4th of july = 5.. since dec. its crazy actually, my friends think im nuts no one really sees how we can make this work, but idc we know how we can and I cant wait till i see him again . the sad part is we dont know when that is. He is stationed in quatico and my sister lives in va beach so we could make it work, however i have my final year of school and he starts this new job monday and isn't sure how much free time he will have. worse case scenario, I see him for his military ball in nov. :( makes me tear a little bit not knowing when the next time ill see him. i miss him soo much and he just left this morning. I think about how i can make this work all the time. but he seems soo worth it to me i couldn't even imagine not having him in my life. he has my heart already. So i def know how you feel. its soo hard to even talk about this to normal ppl bc they think im nuts. but idc i rather be nuts and have him then be normal and be with out him.

omg this describes my relationship to the tee!!! lol. I went to the same school with my bf. and never paid any mind to him.l had the same friends said a few words to each other. It wasn't until he did something on my facebook where i was like who the hell is this... and I recognized him. I couldn't believe how much he had changed we basically exchanged numbs and have been talking every since dec. It wasn't until july 4th where we saw each other for the first time in va beach since hs and since we started talking in dec. (we skped but you know its not the same) He came home for 2 weeks and i spent the majority of the time with him. but that was only 4 days plus the 4th of july = 5.. since dec. its crazy actually, my friends think im nuts no one really sees how we can make this work, but idc we know how we can and I cant wait till i see him again . the sad part is we dont know when that is. He is stationed in quatico and my sister lives in va beach so we could make it work, however i have my final year of school and he starts this new job monday and isn't sure how much free time he will have. worse case scenario, I see him for his military ball in nov. :( makes me tear a little bit not knowing when the next time ill see him. i miss him soo much and he just left this morning. I think about how i can make this work all the time. but he seems soo worth it to me i couldn't even imagine not having him in my life. he has my heart already. So i def know how you feel. its soo hard to even talk about this to normal ppl bc they think im nuts. but idc i rather be nuts and have him then be normal and be with out him.

it is hard! i'm just beyond over it! and last night i find out his coming home date has been pushed back yet again :(

Awwwww me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months but i have been with "with" him 3 weeks and 4 days and its the hardest thing I have ever done!!

yeaaaaaaaa thats a cute story i got a kick out of what you said to him at the party lol thats good that he comes home soon!!!!!!